I understand that in a relationship, no matter how brief it is, both sides have a part to play. This articles will show you how you can play yours in dating a man. 

1) Feel comfortable, feel confident

Now, you are on your way in dating a man. Like any other woman, you will be worried about your appearance. If this man is very special, you will be spending an entire afternoon picking an outfit. This is normal and expected of any woman and you should pick clothes that fit the occasion. If you are going bowling, please wear a jeans. If you are going to a restaurant, wear a dress. Decide for yourself if you want to wear something decent or sexy. The final outcome should be based on your personal dressing preferences. Just be sure that you are relaxed and do not wear anything that make you uncomfortable. If you don’t want to wear heels, get a sneakers.

2) Natural sparkle 

Keep makeup to a minimum. Natural beauty is what people want nowadays. I believe the man you are dating isn’t going out with a heavily make-up version of you. He wants to see the face that is hiding behind the inch thick makeup powder. Use a suitable perfume and don’t spray too much of it. Another important thing to note is don’t try to do the exact opposite. When dating a man, don’t show up with bags under your eyes or hair tousled like you have just gotten out of bed. 

3) Be yourself

When you are meeting him, you might feel nervous and awkward. This will also be the time when you feel like you have you have no idea on how to date a man. Rest ensure that these moments are always there and it is considered normal. They say that the more awkward you feel, the stronger your feelings are for each other. Just try to stay calm and be yourself. The main idea is to date someone that clicked with your true self. Don’t be so overwhelm on the first date and response to everything he says. Saying ‘thank you’ is more than enough when he comment on your looks. 

4) Have lots of fun

When dating a man, make sure both of you are having fun. Don’t do anything that will only be enjoyed by one of you. If he wants to do something else that you don’t want to, tell him that and suggest an alternative. Make sure there is a clear communication between the both of you so that you won’t have any arguments later. And don’t be so worried that he is not enjoying himself, if he is not, he will let you know. 

5) Don’t rush for the bed

Now, what you are about to read next might be something your parents would say, but you know its necessary. When you are dating a man, don’t be in a hurry to sleep with him. However, if you are just looking for some fun instead of commitment, then you can ignore the next few tips. However, if you are looking for a long term relationship with a decent guy, read on. 

6) Be Careful with spikers

Obviously, there are men out there who are only looking for one night stand and will do anything just to get you in bed. That includes drugging your drinks, getting you drunk, sweet talking you and a lot of other methods. This may not be the case for most men but it does not hurt to take precautions.

7) You are what you are in

Make sure you dress appropriately. I know women love to dress to kill, but what you wear reflects who you are. I know this might sound motherly, but you ought to know how to date a man in the safest way possible. Dressing provocatively sends the wrong signal to the guy. Also, try not to have to much alcohol. Your date doesn’t want to see the tipsy side of you and if he does, he should not be your date. Like any other women, you might want to take him to bed, but save it until you know him better. 

8) Decide when you should leave

Now this is for those who feel that their date is going to end up horribly wrong. This may happen when the man starts to become loud, uncouth and rude. Being a lady, you should probably stick it out till the end. But if starts to be too boozy and abusive, you should definitely leave him and go home. The safest way, if you didn’t bring a car, is to call a cab. If he offer you a ride, don’t accept because who knows, he might take you somewhere else. It is always a good idea to let someone know you are going out with a date and call them once you are done, at least, they will know if something happen to you. 

Don’t be too disappointed if the man you are dating is not your type, just remember to have fun and be yourself.