Do you want to spice up your sex life? Then you will have to learn the art of talking dirty to your boyfriend and find out about what turn him on. Talking dirty doesn’t really mean degrading them, it simply means being more vocal during sex. It actually very easy to talk dirty without feeling dirty. This is usually a problem for women but for men, they can talk dirty and still sound smooth and sexy.
If you are one of the women who have trouble talking dirty, the cause is mostly likely a result of what you were taught as a child and the views society have on sex. In fact, talking dirty to your boyfriend is a natural way and a normal part of sexual relationship between a man and a woman.
Forget everything you were ever taught as a child because you have already grown up with sexual desires and talking dirty to your boyfriend is a great way to spice up your sex life!
The first thing you must do is to establish a ‘talk dirty’ boundaries. If certain words is going to offend you, you will have to tell your boyfriend that or he will not know. Once you have agree on what works and what doesn’t, you are all set to talk dirty.
don’t be embarrass or feel nervous and just let the words low naturally as if you two were talking normally. Chances are, you have been together with him long enough to know what turn him on and what doesn’t. Stick to the things that will turn him on and let words flow naturally. Forcing the words out if you are not comfortable saying them will make both of you feel awkward.
In the beginning, it’s sometimes best to stick with sweet nothings and the compliments you already know these work well and gradually add a few new words or phrase each time you have sex.
Before you know it the two of you will be enjoying all the dirty talk you can handle. Most importantly remember how simple it is to turn a man on and not forgetting to respect each other and have fun!