Timing is crucial to doing anything right, and that logic is significant when it comes to dating. Timing can make a date turn out well, or it will crush a relationship. Timing is important when you decide to ask a girl out, when you surprise her with presents, and in what time of your life you meet the girl. Meeting a girl who has expectations different from you at the same point of time does not end up well. For example, you are looking for only a girlfriend and she is looking for a husband. Meeting a new girl in a foreign land where you have been dispatch for a short term work can never end up well, unless the girl decides to follow you forever.

An issue of timing is that you ask a new girl out and discover that she just had a new boyfriend. It’s sad but its time to move on, unless you decided she is the love of your life then go ahead and win her heart.

More common issues to timing involve simply asking a girl out. The weekends are exciting and more fun, but they are also more crowded with people and therefore less ambiance. They are the days most people plan their activities, therefore you have to compete with her existing slots. The weekdays are less exciting but precisely because of that, the date is more exciting (compared to any other weekday event she may have) and more successfully plan. Any one can make a dull day an exciting one. Starting on a week day also gives chances for more dates in the same date.

How to secure a date better? The best way is offer two different programs on 2 different days and timing and let her decide. This is being flexible. She may not accept all of your appointments and you will also have to let her know you are not available everyday every timing. Doing this makes you less desperate and thus she will feel better about you. If you ask you out, it’s a great thing. But if you really have something on, just tell her your reasons. Lame excuses are irritating to everyone.

Persistence is great and be on lookout for the interest factor. It takes some understanding to tell whether the girl likes you or is merely going with the flow to appease you. If ultimately you see that she is not interest, just remain friends with her and push no more. As they say let nature take its own course. If the interest is there, just using timing to achieve good results that leads to a good relationship.