It’s said that women are from Venus and men are from Mars. It’s almost impossible for men to guess accurately what a women wants and that is probably too high a challenge to mount. You say something today and she becomes unhappy. The next day, you say the same thing and she love you to the core. Women are unpredictable so let’s not try to guess what they want. However, there are common things that they like and if you can provide what they want, girls will be lining up! (Just kidding, ladies!)

Firstly, everyone like to laugh! Personally I have never met someone who tells me they hate laughing! Be humorous and make her laugh!

Also, women want security. Be it a stable job, relationship, finances, women like things to be stable. Therefore, you should be supportive of her, be it the decisions she make, the things she wants to try or anything. Let her know that no matter how badly things get, she can always rely on you being the rock of her life!

Thirdly, women love you to show affection! It can be a hug, a simple “I Love You” or something else that resonates for the both of you. Many guys forget about this rule and are bombarded for not being romantic enough. If she wants it that way, then let it be that way! It’s not like an extra hug or kiss is going to cost us anything.

Last but not least, you must be creative and unpredictable. The same thing over and over bores her and you need to inject new adventures and fun into the relationship. Set up surprises for her; give her gifts for no reason at all. Do something every so often to keep her excited and fresh about the relationship and be a fun person! Put in effort and even if the idea does not work out the way you intended, it’s probably ok since she will be touched about the work and thought that you put in!