A boyfriend or a husband for a decent girl should be a good man, not sad, vulgar hooligans. Good men are getting more and more rare, in a society that where basic values should as integrity, honesty and good character are quickly fading. Those very same qualities are what set apart a man from a good man.

Good men are rare and far between. A good man knows what he stands for, what he ought to do, what he will never do, and the principles that he will use to guide his life. His vast learning teaches him how he should treat himself, and the others around him. He loves himself, and has a genuine care for people, and is willing to help people all the way. A good man is willing to give of himself, in return for greater friendships and bonds. A good man shows what he is outside, and that is the same as what he is inside; he is a true character and is transparent. These characteristics are hard to come by. And when bravery is found in a good man, a hero is born.

As they say, you can only learn about a person with time. Of course, conversations with a person regularly will also tell a lot about the person. That is the basic way to find a good man. Conversations should be both serious and casual. A good man is usually friendly on the inside, whether he is an introvert or an extrovert.

A good man believes in self-improvement. Being mature, he knows that he is far from perfect and thus seeks a lifelong program of improving himself. He read books about character, and may study other knowledge for his own interest or to know the world better. Some study psychology in order to know how to help people better.

As said above, a good man is transparent and does not hide his personality. He is generally an “open” person. Good men are also positive people who see the world and people in a good light. We can say that people like them brightens up our world which would otherwise be dull, boring and pessimistic.

The ultimate dream of a good man would be to find a woman who feels like he feels, and has his attitudes towards life and people.