Mistake #1: Using Your Teeth

Sure, your man would not like you to treat his penis too gently when you’re going down on him – but using your teeth is too much on the rough category. You don’t want to nick the skin of his penis, so use your lips as a shield while you’re slowly taking it in.

Mistake #2: Not Playing With His Balls Enough

Just as it is when women complain that most men usually skip on the foreplay to get to the main event, you don’t; want to skip on giving him mind-blowing pleasure by ignoring ‘the boys’.

So what are the rules to follow when it comes to playing with his testicles? Don’t yank, don’t pull them down using a vise grip, never grab and squeeze his balls. What you should do is rub, lick and oh-so-gently tug them until you hear moans of pleasure instead of grunts of pain.

Mistake #3: Giving In To Your Gagging Impulse

The problem is that there are certain levels when a woman’s gag reflex gets triggered. Gagging when you’re trying to give a guy head is definitely a turn off – but what if you can’t help but give in?

Well, you shouldn’t put yourself in such a situation in the first place. Watch when you’re being overly enthusiastic while making sucking motions. If you’re new at giving head, don’t try to take it all in and if you find out from previous experiences that it’s something that you just cannot do – stop trying.

Mistake #4: Not Varying The Pressure Enough

There’s no rule book that you should follow when giving a guy head – but repetitive motions without varying your pressure is not enough of a turn on for him. Use his moans of pleasure to amp up the speed, or slow your motions down to an almost caress if you want to cool him off a bit.

Mistake #5: Not Being In The Moment

Men need to see that you do like worshipping his penis – so don’t just be still while you’re going down on him. Bob your head a bit, use your hands on other parts of his body, make sounds – live in the moment and make him feel like a king when giving him head!

Learning about the top mistakes that you shouldn’t make when giving a guy head is the first step to being the best lover that you can be, so steer clear of this blunders and you can get him off using your mouth in no time at all.

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4 different sex positions and what difference do the position make?

• Missionary position (you on top, as she lies under you).
• Spoons (you both lying on your sides, with you behind her).
• Cowgirl (her on top, facing you).
• Reverse missionary (she lies totally flat on her belly, you kneel—with one knee on either side of her body—above her)

Now we need to set up a stimulation scale in your mind. Make 0 mean absolutely no sexual stimulation. Make 5 mean fairly sexually stimulated. Make 7 very sexually stimulated. 8 should be close to coming. 9 should be right on the edge, just before the point of no return and 10 should be climaxing.

You’re going to perform each position for as long as it takes you to reach a 7 or 8 on the stimulation scale. While performing each position you should ask yourself the following questions

1. How tight does this feel on my penis?
2. How intense is the stimulation on my penis?
3. How quickly is it building up the stimulation?
4. How long does it take for me to go from 0 to 8 on the stimulation scale while in this position?
5. How easy is it for me to bring myself back down the stimulation while in this position by altering my thrust speed, depth and angle?

Based on this information, you can then rank them from the most intense to the least intense and then, you guessed it, use them in this order during your subsequent sexual encounters. The important thing is that you now know which positions is a definitely no when you’re already on the edge of coming. That’s a very, very useful piece of knowledge to have when you have premature ejaculation. It will allow you to add up to 10 minutes onto your sexual performance.

If you’re not a virgin and begin dating a new partner who is also not a virgin, the question becomes “when is the right time to have sex,” instead of “if.” You’ve probably heard of the golden ‘3 date rule’ and may have even heard of people waiting quite a bit longer to become comfortable with each other to have sex. Still, the question is never “if,” unless you’re a virgin or are with someone who is. The question is always “when.” What if you want that “if” factor back? Can you have an “if” factor, even if you’ve had sex before?

You always have control over your own body. You decide when – or  if – you have sex, along with the how, when and where. So ask yourself, “am I ready to have sex?” Just because you are no longer a virgin does not mean that you are required to have a sexual relationship at some point with every person you date. Ask yourself the same questions you would if you were a virgin – for example, are you emotionally ready to handle sex again? Is your body ready for sex? Are you comfortable enough with yourself to enjoy having sex again? Do you enjoy spending time with your partner enough that you are ready to share yourself physically with them? Decide if you’re ready to have sex at all, or if you’re ready to have some sexual intimacy but without “going all the way.”

You may be ready to have sex. You may enjoy it, no matter who it’s with, and be sexually confident in yourself. If that’s your case, go for it! But many women aren’t in that position, and because they’ve “done it” before, they’re expected to “do it” again in every new relationship they’re in. Their partners are constantly wondering if “tonight is the night” or if the 3rd date really is the magic date.

It’s time to shed those expectations and make your own rules! Each time you begin dating a new partner, consider yourself a virgin all over again if you like. Ask yourself the very same questions about sex and your partner that you did before you had sex for the very first time. Because in a way, this is your very first time too! Don’t allow men, or even your friends, to suggest that because you’re not a virgin anymore that you can’t make careful decisions about sex, or abstain from sex completely with a new partner if you so choose.

The Woman On Top Position

Okay, we’ve all heard of woman on top. We’ve all done woman on top. But here’s a reason that you need to make the woman on top position one of your regular, go-to sex positions. Did you know most women can climax when they’re on top? That’s because the angle between your man’s penis and your g-spot is perfect for just the right amount of stimulation.

Sitting Face To Face

Have your partner sit Indian style on the bed or couch, or wherever you like. Face him, and lower yourself onto his penis, wrapping your legs around him. This sex position is great on a bed because the springs inside help your partner to propel you up and down because he’ll be doing most of the work. Why is this position great for women? The face to face contact and emotional intimacy you can experience in this position is off the charts.

Side By Side

Many “new sex positions” are invented by a bunch of guys sitting around a conference table with stick figures, trying to find the weirdest ways they can fit them together. Right? Okay, maybe not, but to for a woman who is looking up new sex positions to try, some of these acrobatic moves can seem downright outlandish. Are they really supposed to work? In the Side By Side position, you are simply lying down and facing your partner with your legs intertwined so his penis can enter you. This requires no special maneuvers, yet gives you the emotional and physical intimacy you need to have an orgasm.

Don’t be afraid to try new things in the bedroom, but remember that you don’t have to act like you’re from the Cirque du Soliel just to please your partner either. Find positions that you and your partner both enjoy and rotate between them when you have sex so your sex life doesn’t become stagnant. Focus more on spending time with your partner and enjoying the sexual sensations you’re sharing with them instead of focusing on getting to the Big O. Chances are, the Big O will come on it’s own, no pun intended.

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Is there a position where you can give your woman ultimate orgasm?

Not really, because every woman is different. They have different likes, dislikes, turn ons, turn offs and personal  preference. Which mean that in order to find a position that satisfy your woman, it takes trial and error.

In order to make things easier for you, I thought i would talk about some of the position I have found to have a high success rate in regards to helping women achieve great orgasm. If you have a hard time making your partner orgasm, trying a few if these techniques in one of the session and see if any are particularly successful.

Position 1: The Cowboy Style

The cowboy position is one of the simple, effective sexual positions for female stimulation out there. Essentially, you lay on your back and she straddles you while kneeling facing towards you. This will allow her to bend forward to change the angle where your penis will hit her virginia wall, making it easier for her to guide it to her G spot. It also allows her to take in as much or as little as you as she wants, by raising or lowering her body with her legs. On top of all these, the position lend itself a decent amount of visual communication and intimacy, and also have a bonus of requiring you not to work too hard, what more can you ask for?

Position 2 & 3: Variation of Missionary Position

When people think of missionary, they think of dry, dull, ho-hum sex that can’t end fast enough. That’s a shame really because you can easily adapt some slight, simple changes and let the missionary position metamorphise into something exciting.

Firstly, try putting a pillow under her butt. This will raise the angle of her hips, allowing your penis to give rhythmic stimulation to her G spot. Obvious, this time round you are on top, as with the next variation.

for variation number 2, experiment by putting both her legs onto your shoulders. This will actually tighten her virginal opening, making it feel much tighter for you, as well as much intense for her. Be careful in this position however, as if you are bigger than average it can be pretty easy to accidentally hit the cervical wall, which is a sure-fire mood killer.

Position 4: Doggie Style

Sex from behind, like those discussed thus far, have many advantages. In addition to allowing her play her clitoris during intercourse, it allows her to basically set the speed, angle, depth and other factors to her liking. In addition it lends itself well to quick, powerful thrusting, not to mention some more “kinky” additions such as spanking and hair-pulling.

So the next time you are having sex with your partner, try out one or two of these positions. Take note of how she reacts and ask her about what she like and not like about it. Eventually, you will find one that will really work for you. In which case you will at least have a base-line to compare future sexual experiences with her with.

What are the differences between the way men and women think in a relationship?

Natalie discusses dating from a womans point of view. She talks about various things she likes and doesn’t like. Understand women and improve your relationships and sex life.

What are some of the turn ons and turn offs for a woman & girls?

Let’s start with understanding what love is not. Well, it is not intimidation, abuse, harassment, manipulation, physical or emotional violence. It says in the bible that love is always kind and patient. Therefore, forcing someone to do something against her will is not love, it’s control. And the urge of being control is fear. The fear of being rejected or not getting something. 

Actually, the opposite of love is not hate, its fear. When fear is present, love will not be possible because fear is there to block it. Alot of people are afraid to love because they are afraid of being hurt and disappointed. However, rejection will only hurt you if you reject yourself. If you start loving yourself unconditionally, then unrequited love will not affect you negatively because you will not dwell on it. You will quickly get over it and quickly find someone who will reciprocate your love. Remember, your most important love relationship is with yourself. If you don’t love yourself, you are unlikely to love anyone else. So, start making peace yourself today and start loving yourself all over again. 

Scientist have proven that falling in love is a chemical reaction. Hormones will create confusion in your body, that you believe that you have finally found your soulmate. Your heart rate will increases, you will blush and start shaking when he or she talks to you. You are unable to sleep at night and you can’t eat, which is great if you want to lose weight. Or maybe you do the opposite and suddenly become an emotional eater, stuffing yourself with alot of food so that you can put that person out of your mind, for at least awhile.

I would probably be easier to begin a relationship without being in love, because your emotions won’t wreck havoc and you can keep a clear head. This chaos is not always a nice feeling because it could bring to surface the insecurity, which can lead to pain and suffering. Being in love is actually a sexual feeling. We are attached to each other physically, which is common, since we are programmed that way. However, if being in love means being in lust, then according to statistics, it doesn’t last very long. The feeling evaporates after a few years, The madness of ripping each other’s clothes off will become a memory, so is staying in bed all day making love. 

It is actually possible to be in love without the element of sex. Platonic love can be intimate and affectionate, without being sexual. Much more than just physical attraction, love is about respecting and understanding each other. It is about trust and accepting the other person as they are. Sure, you can fall in love instantly, but will it last? Don’t you think love at first sight is an illusion, since I can only see what I see? Then reality bite, I am in for a shock, this man or this woman who seem perfect 3 days ago have so many defects. And he or she is probably thinking the same about me. We are both disillusioned and now even the sex doesn’t keep us together anymore, as the physical passion have evaporated. 

Love itself is a commitment. It grows overtime, especially when people are there for each other, where they will listen and understand each other. Communication is important. It is ok to have disagreements sometimes as long as it doesn’t degenerate into fights. 

Dating someone you love like a friend means you’re compatible on more levels than just the physical one. True love is similar to friendship. The important thing is to establish trust and good communication. Sex is an added bonus, as it is the culmination of your love for each other. But even without sex, it is possible to have a relationship, as long as there is affection and true understanding, and a willingness to share. 

A desire to give and receive love will lead us towards a satisfying relationship, in which commitment plays the biggest role. Sex is not compulsory. The main ingredients are trust, acceptance, understanding, respect and appreciation. These can be found in friendship as well, which is why friendship is the best foundation for true love.

It should come as no suprise that women, like men enjoy sex. The only difference is that they want men to ‘just know’ what they want without them breaking down and telling him!

This article is going to make sex a no brainer from here on thanks these ten things that women admit they want from men even if they don’t openly tell them.

Before sex, she want you to…..

Kiss her

It seem to me that kissing has become a sense of lost art in this day and age and its especially true when a couple are together for some time. Try spending a few minutes just kissing (making out) like how you would do when you are a teen. You will be suprise at how hot kissing can really be!

Induge in some foreplay

Women need a little more than guy do when it comes to been turn on and ready for action. By treatin them to more foreplay, not only do you increase their chance of orgasm, but you are also setting yourself up for some very hot sex to follow.

Be romantic

This should come as a no shocker for anyone as it’s been a big prroblem for men since the beginning of time. While women do enjoy the hard and throw down sex occassionally, they do want to be pampered and romance a little.

Take some time to light a candle or two or just say something romantic. It doesn’t take a bed sprinkled with rose petals to make a woman happy, though that would be great too.

During sex she wants you to…..

Look into her eyes

You can’t begin to imagine how sexually arousing it can be when you keep your eyes focus on each other during sex.

It creates an intamacy like nothing else, which women crave from their partner and it can really help you get in tune with each other so you are better to know what feels good and what could use a little work; all without having to say a word.

Be a little rough

Yes, women want romance and teenderness, but that is before sex. During sex, she want to feel the passion and urgency that comes from being wanted and desired.

Men are often afraid to be too rough, but the truth is that women want to be handled a little harder during sex.

Not forget her clitoris

The clitoris is the female equivalent of the penis, meaning that it is full of pleasure feeling (nerve endings that need to be stimulated to achieve orgasm). Most often the men will be so wrapped up in the thrusting motion that he neglect the most sensual part of her body. Spend some time on the clitoris and you will make her one happy lover.

After sex she want you to…..

Cuddle

Big suprise. Women want you to hug her after sex as oppose to having roll over and fall asleep as if she is not even there. Put your hand around her and let her rest her head and try to stay awake for the next tip.

Say something

Again, this come as no suprise to many. This is because women tend to be more vulnerable after sex and if you take the time to talk to her, you are making her at ease and feeling special.

Be tender

Once the passionate, raw sex is done and over with, its time to treat her like a delicate little girl again.

Finally…..

Have sex again

That’s right; while most men need to rest and regroup after they climax, women are usually good to go again rather quickly and would appreciate another round!

Secrets of The Most Happy…..Loved…..Blissful Couples In The World

Have you ever heard of arousal step-down techniques? How about PC muscle & Kegels? If you are like most men, most probably you have heard about them before. And as such, most men are unaware of the number of ways they can boost their sexual skills and ‘lasting’ power, regularly producing mediocre performance in bed, leaving themselves disappointed, the partner they are with disillusioned and usually orgasm-less. 

In a poll conducted recently, 93% of men said they did like to last longer in bed before ejaculating, all of them (100%) are unsure how they could complete this seemingly impossible feat. 

You can last longer in bed

The truth is, its not impossible or difficult to maximize your performance and have complete control over how long you are going to last with your partner. So let’s take a look at one technique that will help you to last longer and have complete control over your arousal level and decide when to cum and when to continue. 

During sex, men tend to lose control of themselves (I mean their ejeculation) at the 2-3 minutes mark which is about midway through the first sexual position. And what a letdown at this point it would be! So that would be the first point where you will use this technique. 

It involves two steps, the first takes place in your mind which is the root of all males’ sexual performance troubles began. 

First step, don’t panic!

When you first feel those telltale sensations in your penis (the heightened sensitivity and energy that let you know that if you carry on doing what you’re doing you’ll soon explode) don’t panic! Too many people are being pushed over the edge, right to ejaculation, because they mentally begin to panic when they feel close to orgasm.

Words rush through their heads like: “Uh oh, I’m gonna blow!” and “Not again, this is going to be embarrassing.” Instead of letting these counter-productive thoughts fill your mind and hasten the orgasm proccess, calmly say in your head “now I am close to ejeculation, time to use the arousal step-up techniques” and move on to step 2. 

The arousal step-up techniques

The most sensitive part of your penis is at the top of the shaft and especially the head. In order to decrease the stimulation without stopping the action, you got to slowly and deeply thrust into your partner, as far as you can go and she can pleasurably take.

Then gently grind your hips wiggling your pubic bone (the hard area above your penis, about 8 inches down from your belly button) on her vagina. To her, this seem like a wonderful stroke of variation which gives her external clitoral stimulation (the number one way to make any woman orgasm).

Sex, as you well know, is all about fun. Using the 2-step technique above, you can fully enjoy the experience without the worry of it all being over too soon!

Many women find it very hard to convey to men what they really want in bed. This is due to reasons from lack of self-confidence to lack of self-awareness.

There is another reason is what make relationship, sexual or otherwise fail: The expectation that men can read women’s mind and know what they really want in bed!

It is possible for men to discover what work best for you. But this type of men are dedicating himself to be a fantastic lover, a rare breed. Not all women have the luxury of having a men skilled in bed.

To experience better sex, you should know what turn you on, love yourself enough to take compliments as they are provided. Here are a few tips to keep in mind:

Clear your mind

If you are self-conscious about something, your mind will focus on that thing and you will not be able to enjoy sexual pressure. So better get rid of what is bothering you even before you engage in sex.

For example, if you’re always insecure of how you smell down there, then make it a point to shower before engaging in sex. If you are afraid that you might accidentally pee while making love, then you should go for a bathroom break before doing it.

Know what turns you on

How would you be able to guide him into what bring you pleasure if you yourself doesn’t know what does? Some women have a hard time figuring out what turn them on. Comparing this to men, most of the time, men are so easy to turn on.

This actually can be a fun time for you. To know what turn you on, maybe you can try buying some romance novel or even sex toys. You will have to do some self exploration on this because unlike men, turning a women on is less ‘clear cut’. Once you know what turn you on, start experimenting with him on bed.

Understand that men are not mind readers

You have to get this straight. Men are not mind readers. They are not able to instinctively tell you what bring you the most pleasure. Communication is the key to ensure that he knows what work for you and keep doing it. So if you already know what turns you on, don’t be afraid to tell him how best to pleasure you.

Be specific

For example, if he is ‘eating you out’, tell him how you want to be licked and where. Again, communication is the key to maximizing pleasure in bed. The more you know about yourself and the more you communicate with him, the more pleasure you will have. The wonderful part is that you will enhance your relationship with him by making intimate communication a regular activity in bed.

If you can orgasm by yourself, you can orgasm during sex

Take control of your own orgasms and don’t be ‘dependant’ on him to give it to you. You can guide him to help you during sex. but the quickest way to reach an orgasm is to help yourself. There is nothing wrong with it and both will be happier in the end.