I have written on 12 romantic things you can do to let your man know you love him. Now, its time for him to reciprocate. Here are 7 proven ways to make your man more romantic from now on.

1) Pick a time, probably after making love, and tell him that you want him to be more romantic in the future. it sounds dumb I know but why go around circles when you can just go direct? If he loves you and want you to be happy, he will seriously consider to be more romantic in future, for you.

2) reward him when he does something romantic. If he sent flowers gush over them and how thoughtful he is. men like to be told they have done well, and when you give them something special after they done something you like, they will continue to do it. That’s why they say men are like dogs – in a good way.

3) Send him a challenger. Point out what romantic things other guys are doing and see what happens. if you give them another man to compete with, they will constantly strive to outdo the other guy.  Point out how amazingly romantic your friend’s boyfriend is, but don’t overdo it or he will get annoyed.

4) Do romantic things for him. Once he sees that you’re going out of your way to be romantic towards him, he will feel the urge to reciprocate.

5) Set up a romantic dinner each week. Once he have gone into the habit of doing romantic things like having a candle lit dinner, he will do it on his own without your supervision. But first, you must let him know your vision of romance.

6) Rent some romantic videos and point out what those men are doing that are romantic. Don’t have to get him to do the exact same thing but subtly point them out. he will eventually get your hint and start treating your romantically.

7) Convince him that being romantic does not make him any less of a man. Some guys think being romantic is not manly and isn’t something they want their friends to know about. Let him know that he doesn’t have to tell the guys he brought you flowers and took a bubble bath with you.

Finally, now I will give you part 2 of this highly successful tips. Try it out from now on and who knows, you might have a super great Valentine’s Day in 2009. 

51. Take advantage of any time alone together. 

52. Tell your wife about how you answered every question in math with her name. (Assuming you’re continuing your education). 
53. Draw. (If you can.) 
54. Let your wife sit on your lap. 
55. Go hiking and camp out together in the woods or on a mountain. 
56. Lips were made for kissing. So were eyes, and fingers, and cheeks, and collarbones, and hands, and ears. 
57. Kiss your wife’s stomach. 
58. Always hold your wife around her hips/sides. 
59. Husbands like half-shirts. 
60. Take your wife to dinner and do the dinner for two deal. 
61. Spaghetti…(Ever see Lady and the Tramp?) 
62. Hold your wife’s hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand and then put it over your heart. 
63. Unless you can feel their heart beating, you aren’t close enough. 
64. Dance together. 
65. Sit in front of a roaring fire and make out/make love. 
66. Tell your lifemate you love the way they look right after they’ve fallen asleep, with their head in your lap. 
67. Carry your wife to bed. 
68. Waterbeds are fun. 
69. You figure it out. 
70. Do cute things like write “I love you” in a note so that they have to look in the mirror to read it. 
71. Break every one of your ‘safe’ relationship rules for your lifemate. 
72. Make excuses to call your lifemate repeatedly in one day. 
73. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to call and say “I love you”. 
74. Call from your business trip to tell your lifemate you were thing about them. 
75. Remember your dreams and tell your lifemate about them. 
76. Drive home from work just to see your lifemate, before turning around and going back to a business meeting in the evening. 
77. Sit in your car in the driveway, honk, then blow your lifemate a kiss as you leave for work. 
78. Tell each other your most sacred secrets/fears. 
79. Share your deepest convictions. 
80. Be Prince/Princess Charming to your lifemate’s parents. 
81. Act out mutual fantasies together. (Not necessarily sexual) 
82. Brush your wife’s hair out of her face for her. 
83. Stay up all night to think of 101 ways to be sweet to your lifemate. 
84. Hang out with your lifemate’s friends, too. 
85. Learn to listen. 
86. Take your wife to see a romantic movie and remember the parts she liked. 
87. Cuddle together under a full moon on a clear night. 
88. Learn from each other and don’t make the same mistakes twice. 
89. Everyone deserves a second chance. 
90. Describe the joy you feel just to be with your lifemate. 
91. Make sacrifices for each other. 
92. Really love each other. 
93. Write a fictional story about how you met/fell in love, etc. and give it to your lifemate. 
94. Let there never be a second during any given day that you aren’t thinking about them, and make sure they know it. 
95. Hot tubs are great. 
96. Learn to say sweet things in foreign languages, including sign language. 
97. Dedicate songs to them on the radio. 
98. Fall asleep on the phone with each other. 
99. Sleep naked together. 
100. Stand up for your lifemate when someone says unkind things about them.

The intention of writing a love letter is to express your innermost feelings for another person. Often expressing thoughts and feelings that are not easily express in person. Can it be said that love and romance ever be completed without love letters? I don’t think so because love requires communication. It demands the expression of one’s heart in both action and words. I have heard it said that the greatest love letter was the Bible because it brought forth the greatest love from God towards us of His creation. 

Was the need to communicate love behind Valentine’s Day?

Perhaps this is exactly why the celebration of Valentine’s Day started in 496 AD with the exchange of love letters between the couples. Since that time, the exchange of love notes and letters have flown through from the hearts of countless friends and lovers who have understand the need to express the heart’s feelings. Could it not be said that this tradition supports the idea that there is no greater force than love? I believe so. Valentine’s Day itself is celebrated in many different ways and in many different places. Its interesting to note that Valentine’s Day mark the biggest shopping day of the year in terms of chocolate and flowers. On the occasion of Valentine’s Day or any other day, a love letter written by your sweetheart can overwhelm you. 

Love letters can be tools in your relationship

Couples are able to testify that writing each other love letters over the years have enhance their relationship, sometimes dramatically. But it seem that others, even though understanding the power of love communication prevent themselves from taking action because of their insecurities of their writing ability. They need to be told that there are services available that can help them provide a basic structure of a love letters, notes or poems. companies offer the basic format and the client will just have to fill in the blanks. Perhaps it should be suggested to those who think it is to “impersonal” to just fill in the blanks that the next time they give flowers or a personal gift to their spouse or a friend, that they make sure they plant and grow their own flowers, and manufacture their very own gift, if in truth that is what it takes to make it entirely personal, and a token from one’s own heart.

Love letters can be bland or very decorative and scent. Anything is better than nothing

Love letters are usually more presentational than normal letters. Love letters are usually written in ink, but if your handwriting is usually horrible, you can use a writing program, chose a great font and print it out of a designer paper. Traditionally, love letters were also scent with user’s perfume. Scent love letters usually relate to a particular scent which is associated with the person. I have received them adorned in flowers, others in colored print and yet others in plain print and plain blocked letters. The decorative and dramatic or the playful and silly are good and the simple plain is always better than nothing. Each is fine to me, but no letter, no sentiment and no communication, that is not good. If we do not know, then we should be told that open hatred is far better than secret love. 

There are love letter aides for the hurried or those that feel awkward

I ask you, can love and romance ever be complete without love letters?

Finally, the first ever series post in MindChic.net has come to an end. I hope you like the first instalment of 25 romantic ways and now I will reveal to you the next 25 inexpensive ways to be romantic. Enjoy and have fun.

26) Place an ad in the classifieds declaring your love. Then take the newspaper, wrap it in a bow, and put a little note on it saying what page to look on.

27) Blindfold surprise. Blindfold your partner and drive them to the place where you had your first date, and have that date all over again!

28) Write a love poem for her.

29) Make an early valentine. Cut out some paper in the shape of a heart. Write something sweet on it in red and put it in her purse or his briefcase.

30) If your partner is going on a business trip secretly hide a love note inside their luggage.

31) Offer to help them with some dreaded chore they must complete and make it into a fun time maybe with some music. (cleaning out the basement, raking the leaves, shoveling after a big snow storm, giving the dog a bath, washing the car, etc.)

32) Do something romantic and spontaneous, like picking a flower and giving it to her right on the spot.

33) Invent a meal and name it after him or her.

34) Buy some body paint and write your love message on your body.

35) Record yourself reading a romantic love poem for your honey. Then give your partner a CD and tell them to play it in the car on their way to work.

36) Make a small postcard sized love collage. Then cover it with clear packing tape. Write a love message on the other side and mail it!

37) Keep a box with mementos of fun things you’ve done together. Later when the box is filled, arrange them on a board and have it framed.

38) Buy some underwear with special messages on it. Or buy your own and paint a special picture or message with fabric paints.

39) Make a donation to charity in the name of your love for your partner. Give your sweetheart a card that tells how grateful you are to share your life with her.

40) Keep a box with special cards, letters, photographs, and other mementos. On your anniversary or on Valentine’s day take a little time to share fond memories together as you review the contents.

41) Create a mindmap of all the things you love about your partner and make it into a card.

42) Take a walk on the beach together. Run up ahead and write a message in the sand, and then call your partner to see what you “found.”

43) Say “I love you” often, slowly, and with feeling.

44) Play hooky together. You work hard. Now today take a day to work easy at just sharing some fun time together. Call it an “I love you day.”

45) Send an e-card to your sweetie to brighten his day. Here are free e-card resources: Apple iCards, BlueMountain, Hallmark.

46) Make little “I love you” posters with either crayons, markers, collage, paint, whatever. Post them in surprising places: the bathroom, the closet, the car, under her pillow, on her pillow.

47) Create a small website or blog dedicated to your partner. Write a short love message each day for a month…or forever.

48) Complete that chore or favor that your partner has wanted you to do for a long time.

49) Be super kind for a whole day. Act like you would with a new love, a child, or a frail person. Show lots of kindness, generosity, and love no matter what for a whole day.

50) Take an interest in your partner’s interests. For a woman it might be watching a football game with your guy. And for men it might be going to see a chick-flick. Do it with a spirit of enthusiasm and love. Have fun.

Print this out and do one each day. Make up your own. You don’t have to tell your partner that this is something you are doing. Just do it. Who knows, maybe you’ll establish a positive habit of expressing your love on a daily basis.

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Here are a list of 50 inexpensive things you can do to express your love. If things aren’t going well between the both of you, then this list may help mend the problems. But if things are going great for both of you, then this list will be icing on the cake. Since they are not expensive in any way, there is no excuse not to give this a shot.

1) Write ‘I Love You’ in the steam of the bathroom mirror right after his shower.

2) Offer to give a massage with a good smelling lotion

3) Write a poem and translate with Google Translator into French or Italian and hand written it out with the translation at the back. Better yet, read the poem to them and then hand them the translation.

4) While in public, declare ‘I Love You, Your partner name’

5) Make a CD with a compilations of a few songs that are meaningful to the relationship.

6) Invite him to take a bath complete with bubbles, champagne, candles, and maybe a little Barry White. (the music, not actually Barry White in your tub.)

7) Surprise her at work and take her out to lunch, maybe take-out food in the park or maybe to a little diner, for a midday romantic interlude.

Put together a little gift on his pillow: chocolate and a note that says “Your love is like chocolate: sweet and delicious.”

9) If your partner has a work presentation at an off site location, have flowers and a note of support delivered there.

10) Dedicate a song to him on the radio and send him an email telling him when to listen.

11) Cook a special love meal of your partner’s favorite foods. Play his favorite music and turn the lights low for a romantic dinner.

12) Give your partner a pedicure and foot rub.

13) Send a text message or email that says “I love you!”

14) Mail a card and inside write down the top 10 things you love about your partner.

15) Give him a picture of you for his wallet that says “I love you.”

16) Leave a love note in her car telling her to have a great day.

17) Carve your initials in a tree.

18) When your partner least expects it, give him a great big kiss, even if it’s in public!

19) Go see a romantic movie, sit in the back row, hold hands, and cuddle.

20) King for a Day/ Queen for a Day. Declare that you will dedicate a particular day just to your partner to do whatever they want. Maybe start with breakfast in bed.

21) Buy a tree and invite your partner to plant it with you explaining that this tree represents the love between you both that will grow over the years.

22) In the midst of talking about how your days went, the chores that need to be done, etc. interrupt and say “I have something important to tell you. I love you and here’s why.” Then list 5 things (or more) that you really appreciate about your partner. Finish with a kiss and say, “Ok, so you were talking about the water heater.”

23) Write an old fashioned love letter and mail it. Be romantic and lavish. Have some fun with it.

24) Before going to a party together come up with some secret code words you can use during conversation. You can be telling each other “I can’t wait to get you alone tonight!” without anyone knowing!

25) Find a hotel that has a jacuzzi and book it for a one night getaway somewhere close but fun.

There you go. Digest these tips and try it out on your partner over the weekend. stay tune to next week as I reveal more ways to be a romantic partner.

With the success of ’60 Words & Phrases That Will Make Men Fall Deeply In Love With You’ I now introduce you the sequel, ‘Another 30 Effective Phrase That Captivate Your Man’s Heart’. 

I believe that the words you use have power. It can inspire and captivate a man and have him notice you. What are the words you can use to get his attention? 

Just like women who like to be praise and appreciated and told that they have a beautiful face? They do feel happy when receiving such compliments from men. The same goes to men. What do men like to hear from women? 

Words men love to hear…

1. When can we meet again?

2. I can really trust in you

3. How do you know all this? I’m so impressed

4. I’ve never met any man like you before

5. I like who I am when I’m with you

6. I feel honored to know you

7. You’re really so humorous!

8. You look wonderful/great with your new hair look

9. Are you really still single?

10. I like confident guys like you

11. Hey, you have special talent

12. I believe you can make it

13. I believe in you when you tell me…

14. You sure can do it

15. You have such a great idea

16. You are so different from other men

17. I love the way you look at things

18. You are good at doing things like that

19. Tell me more. I love to hear what you think

20. I’m happy when I’m with you

21. I agree what you said

22. You’re great/amazing guy

23. I’m speechless

24. I like your jokes

25. I love to be with you

26. Thank you

27. It’s really nice talking with you

28. You got a nice car

29. You make me laugh

30. You got a nice smile

It’s hard to believe that ordinary women out there have the ability to melt the men’s heart. Learn the secrets to captivate a man’s heart, appeal to their needs and desires. Simply phrases or compliments will surely bring a smile onto his face.

Have you been having problems with finding ways to get to your man’s heart? Here are 12 romantic things you can do to capture his heart:

1.  They say the way to a man ‘s heart is through his stomach.  There really is some truth to this.  So cook him his favorite dish and serve it his favorite drink.  Make sure the mood is right.

2.    Send him a text message or leave him a voice mail that says that you love him and can ‘t wait to see him.

3.    Write a love letter and leave it in the clothes that he will wear to work.

4.    Volunteer to take care of his laundry.  Better yet, do it without him asking you.

5.    If you live together, run his bath water, place scented candles in the bathroom for him.

6.    Give him a body massage without him asking for it.

7.    When you are in the car and he is driving, put your hand on his lap, look at him and tell him that you love him.

8.    Give him a hug and a kiss before you go to work.  If you don ‘t live together, drive to his home in the morning and tell grab your hug and kisses — that is if you live close to his home.

9.    Call him up at work and tell him that you would like to make love to him when he gets home from work tonight.

10.    Give him a card that coveys how you feel about him.  It does not have to be a special occasion for you to give him a nice card.

11.    Use your lipstick and write “I love you” in the mirror he will use to shave. Don’t forget to plant a kiss on the mirror next to what you have written.

12.    Apply a fresh lipstick, grab one of his really good pictures, plant a kiss on it and stick it on his refrigerator.

Men are very easy to please, and you don’t have to spend much to let the man in your life know that you really love him.  A lot of times, it is the little things that you do for your man that shows that you really love him. Good luck in love!

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