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		<title>60 Words &amp; Phrases That Will Make Men Fall Deeply In Love With You</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Aug 2011 12:34:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sandra Christian</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of the most interesting thing about being in love is that you are able to get the kind of love you want. If you do not realize, most of the time, the love that one gets is the same kind of love that one gave. When it comes to love, communication is the fuel [...]]]></description>
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<p>One of the most interesting thing about being in love is that you are able to get the kind of love you want. If you do not realize, most of the time, the love that one gets is the same kind of love that one gave. When it comes to love, communication is the fuel that fan the flame. The words you chose can make a great difference between a dramatic relationship or one that is blissful and loving. Now that you know, let me share with you the <a href="http://589baeimi0huasdar-j-83ftd6.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=WOMENMENADORE">words that men love to hear</a> and upon hearing that, he will love you more.</p>
<p><strong>Words</strong></p>
<p>1. Honey</p>
<p>2. Sweetheart</p>
<p>3. Sweetie</p>
<p>4. Baby</p>
<p>5. Darling</p>
<p>6. Sexy</p>
<p>7. Fine</p>
<p>8. Handsome</p>
<p>9. Stud muffin</p>
<p>10. Sugar</p>
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<p><strong>Phrases</strong></p>
<p>11. You just make me feel so good.</p>
<p>12. You are the best.</p>
<p>13. I can&#8217;t get enough of you.</p>
<p><a href="http://589baeimi0huasdar-j-83ftd6.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=WOMENMENADORE">14. You drive me wild.</a></p>
<p>15. You know me inside and out.</p>
<p>16. I love you so much.</p>
<p>17. I love you with all my heart and soul.</p>
<p>18. You make me laugh.</p>
<p>19. You are so funny.</p>
<p>20. I love the way you love me.</p>
<p>21. I love the way you make me feel.</p>
<p>22. I never want you to stop loving me.</p>
<p>23. I don&#8217;t know what I would do without you in my life.</p>
<p>24. You make me feel so special.</p>
<p>25. I need you in my life.</p>
<p>26. You just made my day.</p>
<p>27. I can&#8217;t get enough of your hugs and kisses.</p>
<p>28. I apologize.</p>
<p>29. I promise to love you forever.</p>
<p>30. You are the one for me.</p>
<p>31. I don&#8217;t need anyone else in my life.</p>
<p>32. You are more than enough for me.</p>
<p>33. Marry me and make me the happiest woman.</p>
<p>34. I have always loved you and will always love you.</p>
<p>35. I miss you so much.</p>
<p>36. I am so lonely without you.</p>
<p>37. My life is empty without you.</p>
<p>38. I can&#8217;t wait to see you.</p>
<p>39. I want to be with you forever.</p>
<p>40. I love the way you hold me.</p>
<p>41. It kills me to know that you will be gone for a long time.</p>
<p>42. I feel like I am dreaming when I am with you.</p>
<p>43. I have never been loved like this before.</p>
<p>44. I&#8217;d love to wake up next to you forever.</p>
<p>45. It hurts me so much to see you this way.</p>
<p>46. If I can&#8217;t be with you, then I don&#8217;t want to be with anyone else.</p>
<p>47. I am not waiting for a knight in shining armor &#8211; mine has already arrived.</p>
<p>48. If your kisses were wishes I would make a 1000 wishes.</p>
<p>49. Life has never been better since you came into my life.</p>
<p>50. I can&#8217;t believe we have been together for so long. I guess time flies when you are having fun.</p>
<p>51. I will go to the ends of the world for you.</p>
<p>52. Life without your love is a life I&#8217;d rather not live.</p>
<p>53. I love the way you look at me.</p>
<p>54. I trust you with all my heart.</p>
<p>55. Thank you for all you have done for me.</p>
<p>56. The words &#8220;I love you&#8221; are not enough to express how I feel about you.</p>
<p>57. I can&#8217;t find the words to express how you make me feel.</p>
<p>58. You make me feel like I am the luckiest girl in the world.</p>
<p>59. Just being with you is enough for me to have a great time.</p>
<p>60. You don&#8217;t have to say a word for me to feel your love.</p>
<p>Life without endearing words is like garden without flowers. Endearing words when spoken transcend sour reality and make life worth living.</p>
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		<title>7 Proven Ways To Make Your Man More Romantic Now</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Apr 2011 18:43:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sandra Christian</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have written on 12 romantic things you can do to let your man know you love him. Now, its time for him to reciprocate. Here are 7 proven ways to make your man more romantic from now on. 1) Pick a time, probably after making love, and tell him that you want him to [...]]]></description>
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<p>I have written on 12 romantic things you can do to let your man know you love him. Now, its time for him to reciprocate. Here are 7 proven ways to make your man more romantic from now on.</p>
<p>1) Pick a time, probably after making love, and tell him that you want him to be more romantic in the future. it sounds dumb I know but why go around circles when you can just go direct? If he loves you and want you to be happy, he will seriously consider to be more romantic in future, for you.</p>
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<p>2) reward him when he does something romantic. If he sent flowers gush over them and how thoughtful he is. men like to be told they have done well, and when you give them something special after they done something you like, they will continue to do it. That&#8217;s why they say men are like dogs &#8211; in a good way.</p>
<p>3) Send him a challenger. Point out what romantic things other guys are doing and see what happens. if you give them another man to compete with, they will constantly strive to outdo the other guy.  Point out how amazingly romantic your friend&#8217;s boyfriend is, but don&#8217;t overdo it or he will get annoyed.</p>
<p>4) Do romantic things for him. Once he sees that you&#8217;re going out of your way to be romantic towards him, he will feel the urge to reciprocate.</p>
<p>5) Set up a romantic dinner each week. Once he have gone into the habit of doing romantic things like having a candle lit dinner, he will do it on his own without your supervision. But first, you must let him know your vision of romance.</p>
<p>6) Rent some romantic videos and point out what those men are doing that are romantic. Don&#8217;t have to get him to do the exact same thing but subtly point them out. he will eventually get your hint and start treating your romantically.</p>
<p>7) Convince him that being romantic does not make him any less of a man. Some guys think being romantic is not manly and isn&#8217;t something they want their friends to know about. Let him know that he doesn&#8217;t have to tell the guys he brought you flowers and took a bubble bath with you.</p>
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		<title>The Simplest Way To Express Love With a Small Budget?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Apr 2010 15:20:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sandra</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Expressing your love to somebody does not involve having to spending of a large amount of money.While romantic dates and the infrequent present can work its way thru your wallet, you need to spend your last dime each single time to show that you care. Here we tell you paths to make your feelings known [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> Expressing your  love to  somebody does not involve having to spending of a  large amount of  money.While romantic dates and the  infrequent present can work its way  thru your wallet, you  need to spend your last dime  each single time to show that you care. Here we tell you  paths to make your  feelings known to  the one on a  tight budget:</p>
<p>  One of the  best strategies to win over your love is to  cosset her. And  nothing&#8217;s better then a massage when it comes to  heavy cosseting.You  could buy special spa packages for your  beloved which would  roughly scorch a hole  thru your pocket, or you  could choose to do it yourself. The  latter we  suspect is the more romantic and  naturally,a more wallet friendly option. All you need to do is get some  savoury candles,  concentrated oils, and other massage  gear.Even if  you&rsquo;re not  totally confident about your massage  methods,you can  bone up on your  skills by reading massage books. So giving a massage by yourself  won&#8217;t only help save your wallet but also win your love over.</p>
<p>   Create a trail of gifts.  Instead of  blowing your money on a big  present,buy  several small gifts.  Even though it may  seem costly,it is  basically going to  prove to be much cheaper. You  can buy  some tiny gag gifts, gather  some her  top chocolates, or collect daily items  for use like a moisturizer, lip  balm and  the like.You  could create something  similar to a treasure hunt, where in  each clue could direct to a  gift.</p>
<p>  Put in a  lot of romanticism. The  bedrock of everything here is to convey your love o the beloved.  Sometimes love can be conveyed by a gesture as  straightforward as drawing  a lovely card for the partner. You  may also  start by decorating the  whole room with  little gifts and Hershey kisses. To such a  dcor you  can also add on a message card  that will convey your  heartfelt feelings for your  dearest.Such  sort of attempts on your  part is  certainly going to sway her of her feet. No  kind of  expensive jewels and  the like can manage to make her this  satisfied.</p>
<p>  Plan a romantic meal. If you have gone out dining to  expensive restaurants, you will know how  inexpensive this  will prove to be. And  don&#8217;t worry, you  desire not be a great  cook for this one. Prepare some basic meals and  arrange it in the  perfect romantic setting. You  could light up candles all around or decorate the dining table with  tons of flowers. While you  like the most romantic evening,  you will be able to save  a few very important bucks too.</p>
<p>  Noting can beat the charm and the  warmth of the feelings that you  harbor in your heart.  Do not equate your love with the materialistic gifts and  the like.All you need to do is to  make use of the  cost effective  strategies and  be certain that  you are going to convey your love in the deepest manner.</p>
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		<title>Don’t Let The Passion Fade!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2010 05:04:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sandra Christian</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Treat Each Other Like You Did At The Beginning Why does it seem to be the case that we only hurt the ones we love? We tend to show our “best selves” to the people who play less-important roles in our lives. Aside from learning to be nice to each other again, and learning to [...]]]></description>
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<h4>Treat Each Other Like You Did At The Beginning</h4>
<p>Why does it seem to be the case that we only hurt the ones we love? We tend to show our “best selves” to the people who play less-important roles in our lives. Aside from learning to be nice to each other again, and learning to treat each other respectfully, bring back things that you did when you first met – and feel free to spice it up – go back to the honeymoan! Make these activities your top priority!</p>
<p><strong>A Touch Can Be Magical!</strong></p>
<p>It can get your hormones flowing and build attraction. Rediscover romance by bringing physical connection – at whatever lever you’re comfortable with – back into your life.</p>
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<h4>Make A Decision To Fall In Love Again</h4>
<p>Fidelity – both sexual and financial – results from intent to REMAIN in love. These types of commitments don’t just happen. A strong relationship may feel fun and exciting at first, but it’s not based on those feelings! It’s normal that these initial impulses start to fade, but you have to commit to growing your love stronger than it was before.</p>
<p>Passion is not to be confused with love, but it still is an important part of a relationship – and it’s important to understand WHY it’s important! Because the feelings of passion we experience – especially pronounced at the beginning of a relationship – aren’t actually love, couples should be aware that the absence of passion is not the absence of love. However, losing passion in a relationship is something that should not be taken lightly.</p>
<p>Especially once you’ve been in a committed relationship for a while, it’s easy to get to that point of stagnation. Life is busy and demanding. There are frequently careers in the picture, perhaps kids, home ownership, financial demands and relationship stress, family issues, and much more. I bring this topic up particularly around the holidays when – although it’s a time we SHOULD be using to spend with loved ones and reignite passion in our romances – it’s often instead a period of the year that is incredibly stressful and draining.</p>
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		<title>Why Married Couples Love to Cheat?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 05:50:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sandra Christian</dc:creator>
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<p>Cheating is not always about having the money to entice a person to sleep with you, it&#8217;s about lust and fulfilling fantasies, it&#8217;s a complicated issue. Men aren&#8217;t alone when it comes to infidelity. Wives are also cheating on their husbands more than ever. So what are some of the common causes of cheating, and how they can be avoided:</p>
<p><strong><em>LACK OF SEXUAL INTIMACY </em></strong></p>
<p>If you and your spouse have stopped being intimate with each other, or if you decreased the frequency of your intimacy, then your personal relationship is going to suffer. Sex is an integral part of a marriage. It is a way to share something with each other that is personal and loving, and the connection that you share during sex creates a deeper connection between the two of you that extends to all areas of your life. Maintain excitement between the two of you by integrating foreplay into your everyday lives. Call your husband at work, and tell him how eager you are to be with him tonight. Leave a naughty note in your wife&#8217;s car before she leaves for work. Wear lingerie, light candles burn incense. Hold hands. When you have been with someone for many years, sometimes you forget that it is the little things that make the biggest difference.<span id="more-924"></span></p>
<p><strong><em>LACK OF EMOTIONAL INTIMACY</em></strong></p>
<p>Married couples develop a silent form of communication between one another, but you can&#8217;t eliminate verbal communication from a relationship altogether. Couples who co-exist as if they were roommates are at risk for losing the friendship side of their relationship. Talk to your spouse about your day; make it a dinner-time ritual. After dinner, don&#8217;t park in front of the television. Find the joy of just sitting together; sharing your thoughts and innermost feelings.</p>
<p><strong><em>SEXUAL ADDICTION</em></strong></p>
<p>Sexual addiction is one of the worst afflictions that a married person can possess. Someone with a sexual addiction craves different sexual partners and lots of sex, and it can be as hard an addiction to conquer as drinking or drug use. Sexual addiction can be hard to understand and very hard to forgive because when someone cheats on you, it feels like the ultimate betrayal.</p>
<p><strong><em>MID-LIFE CRISIS AFFAIRS AND LIFESTYLE CHANGES</em></strong></p>
<p>The severity of a mid-life crisis varies from person to person. Some men buy a fast sports car, some women rush out for plastic surgery, and some men and women stray from their relationships, often looking for a younger sexual partner to add some spice to their life. Remind them how much you love them, and be willing to be adventurous together. Instead of dreading aging, embrace and enjoy it together.</p>
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		<title>5 Ways to Save Your Love Relationship</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2010 05:00:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sandra Christian</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Listen to Your Body Hostility and resentment hurt you more than they do the other person, especially if you keep feeling resentful even when the person&#8217;s not with you! Learn to recognize signs of tension and poor health in your body: stomach pains, neck or back pain, headaches. When things get stressful or confrontational I&#8217;ll [...]]]></description>
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<p><strong>Listen to Your Body</strong></p>
<p>Hostility and resentment hurt you more than they do the other person, especially if you keep feeling resentful even when the person&#8217;s not with you! Learn to recognize signs of tension and poor health in your body: stomach pains, neck or back pain, headaches. When things get stressful or confrontational I&#8217;ll start to get a headache. When I do, I know it&#8217;s time to gracefully remove myself physically from the interaction and do something to care for myself, such as taking a walk with my dog or a hot bath. <span id="more-894"></span></p>
<p><strong>Pay attention to what is good</strong></p>
<p>Make a point of focusing on what you like about the other person, and what&#8217;s good in your own life. When you focus on the good things about another person, and simultaneously begin attending to the neglected areas of your own life, the other person will often begin to miraculously improve on their own.</p>
<p><strong>Tend To Your Own Garden</strong></p>
<p>Have you ever wondered how much time you spend thinking about or complaining about what he or she is doing wrong? Instead, turn your focus, at that moment, to what would be the best thing you could do, to look after yourself and your own life. You can always call a friend just to say hello and not to complain. There&#8217;s always something more productive that you can do rather than complaining. If you spend a significant amount of your life energy being angry with or complaining about your partner, resolve to take the attention off of them and onto what needs to be attended to in your own life.</p>
<p><strong>Learn to be Happy, No Matter What They Do</strong></p>
<p>If your happiness depends on what another person does or doesn&#8217;t do, you&#8217;re sure to be miserable at some point, if not most of the time. Decide to be happy, no matter what. Find, or create, things about your life that you enjoy, and focus on them when things get tough.</p>
<p><strong>Own Your Own Buttons</strong></p>
<p>If your partner knows just what to do or say to set you off, don&#8217;t blame them for your reaction. You can&#8217;t control what someone else does, but you can control what you do. Learn to recognize your own &#8220;hot buttons&#8221;, and notice yourself as you start to react. Stop, go to another room, do something silly, give them a big wet kiss (like you mean it), whatever it takes to interrupt your reaction. It&#8217;s not always easy, and you&#8217;ll fail sometimes, but once you get good at this you will be amazed by how much less drama and conflict you experience with your significant other.</p>
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		<title>Can True Love Be Found Through Law of Attraction?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2010 03:54:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sandra Christian</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[By truly understanding what you want from a relationship and applying some very basic Law of Attraction principles, you will ensure that you get what you truly desire. It is important to understand exactly what physical traits, behaviors, values, beliefs, and interests are important to you so that you can focus on what you want [...]]]></description>
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<p>By truly understanding what you want from a relationship and applying some very basic Law of Attraction principles, you will ensure that you get what you truly desire. It is important to understand exactly what physical traits, behaviors, values, beliefs, and interests are important to you so that you can focus on what you want in your relationship instead of what you don’t want. <span id="more-869"></span></p>
<p>Many times, people will go from one failed relationship to another without giving any thought whatsoever to why or how their relationships keep failing. Even better, they over correct and end up in another relationship that fails for similar, yet opposite extreme reasons. I certainly knew what I didn’t want – at least from the relationship that just ended. Wouldn’t it have been great if I would have taken the time to think about all of the failed relationships and combined all that heartache into one clear idea of what I did and did not want in a relationship? I could have saved myself a few swings of the pendulum.</p>
<p>Take out a piece of paper and write down everything you want in your perfect relationship. What is he or she like? How do they look, smell, talk? What kinds of things will you do together? How do you feel when you’re around them? Really get into this and take the time to write down every detail. It’ll be well worth it in the end. Most people never take this step of writing down what they want and yet it is the single most important step in finding the partner of their dreams.  Just think about that for a minute…Don’t doubt yourself. Assume that you are perfect in every way and there is nothing standing in your way of getting exactly what you want. Not money, or looks, or time, or anything else. When you have finished this exercise, you will be well ahead of the game. Take as long as you need… This is key to your ultimate success!</p>
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		<title>Salvage Your Broken Love Now</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2009 05:03:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sandra Christian</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[After a relationship gone bad, you know that you still love that person. You keep thinking about her night and day and wonder if she feels the same way. You keep reminiscing those wonderful moments when you were together. You keep regretting to agree to the break-up and determine that you will never have her [...]]]></description>
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<p>After a relationship gone bad, you know that you still love that person. You keep thinking about her night and day and wonder if she feels the same way. You keep reminiscing those wonderful moments when you were together. You keep regretting to agree to the break-up and determine that you will never have her back.</p>
<p><span id="more-832"></span>No! This is not the right way of thinking. This sort of negativity is what comes between you and reconciliation. Hardly any strong bonds can be broken that easily. As long as remnants of good memories exist, there is always a way to get her back, as long as you are wiling to try. It is not too late to start anew, and bring back the love you miss so badly.</p>
<p>Think of the reasons that lead to the break-up in the first place. No use thinking about &#8220;whose fault is it?&#8221;. Just focus on your own shortcomings first and then evaluate how you may have her back. If you are serious, you should have a well-planned strategy to do so.</p>
<p>There are some reasons that people cannot get together with another. And one of them is bad habits. A break-up is actually wise when you find that you cannot possible live with another&#8217;s bad habits. Habits make the person and they stay that way forever unless encountered with change. If you find that you have a bad habit that has lead to this, resolve to solve them first before calling her again.</p>
<p>Lack of appreciation is a major killer in all types of relationship. When people spend time and effort for something, they expect to be appreciated. A lack of appreciation may just mean taking for granted. Perhaps it may just be a minor thing to you, but a major thing to her. An easy example will be that you did not compliment her on how she dresses. When women dress up, they hope to be complimented. These are small things that we have overlooked that may lead to a major displeasure. Resolve them to bring back your love and never let her go again.</p>
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		<title>How to Keep the Love Alive</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 May 2009 05:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sandra Christian</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Relationships are a great part of life and thus the quality of our life has to depend on the type of relationship we have. Relationships are very important and it&#8217;s up to us to maintain good relationships. But sometimes people get lazy or too comfortable with the status quo that they did not realise that [...]]]></description>
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<p>Relationships are a great part of life and thus the quality of our life has to depend on the type of relationship we have. Relationships are very important and it&#8217;s up to us to maintain good relationships. But sometimes people get lazy or too comfortable with the status quo that they did not realise that the relationship is going down the slope.</p>
<p><span id="more-829"></span>The fault is that we do not work as hard at the relationship as we did. This could be because of real issues like work taking up too much time, or a sudden change of circumstances and a loss of love. It is possible that we lose our love when we keep living with the same person that it becomes so natural that we take it for granted. We start spending less time together and talking like we did. And things just do not seem as romantic as before. This becomes a pitfall for a cold love.</p>
<p>When that happens, it is high time to wake up to the facts and ask why you are feeling this way. Recall what you liked about each other and try to imitate those same qualities. This will help bring the relationship to the same levels as you started dating. Review how the relationship started, and how it started to get good.</p>
<p>After all that thinking, you would have an idea of what they like and how you can please them. Try to fit these in into your busy schedules and hectic life. Life is not all about work and money; relationships are far more important. Remember what your partner finds romantic, and re-enact those actions again. This will bring back the love you have longed for. Most likely this could be a candle light dinner or a long, casual and fun talk. Eye contact is crucial.</p>
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		<title>Why is it Your Old Flame is Still the Special One?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2009 05:38:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sandra Christian</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As humans, we are all, to some extent, nostalgic about the past. It&#8217;s hard to forget good memories and sometimes we wish that things will go back to the way they once were. The same applies for love too. On hindsight, it seems stupid that we ever let our ex girlfriends go, since she is [...]]]></description>
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<p>As humans, we are all, to some extent, nostalgic about the past. It&#8217;s hard to forget good memories and sometimes we wish that things will go back to the way they once were. The same applies for love too. On hindsight, it seems stupid that we ever let our ex girlfriends go, since she is so nice and understanding etc. This remorse gives rise to the selective amnesia we experience, which enables us to remember only the great times we had together and forget about the times we argued and eventually broke off.</p>
<p><span id="more-773"></span>A possible reason why we want our ex back is that the chemistry between you two is so strong that you cannot find someone whom you &#8220;click&#8221; so much with anymore. It can also be that the person is someone who touched your life so much and so deeply that you just couldn&#8217;t forget about her, no matter how you try. We are afraid that that may be our last shot at happiness and we end up blotching it.</p>
<p>An important thing to note here is that you must not want back the relationship purely because you are desperate or fearful. A relationship built on that basis cannot last and you will be bringing even more pain to both yourself and your ex. If you are genuinely enthusiastic about the future that you two can have together, then there is hope yet!</p>
<p>With the advancement of technology, the internet and social networking sites, it is easy to find your old flame again. You can search for her online and try to rekindle the relationship. It&#8217;s usually not as hard as getting to know a new person again since the foundation is all there. Tell her you changed; you still miss her and get her to agree to a date. Then, if the feelings are still there, you two can get together again, hopefully with a different ending this time!</p>
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