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		<title>Commitment &#8211; The Only Way to Overcome Threats of Long-Distant Relationship</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Oct 2008 03:44:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sandra Christian</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Long-distance relationships have common threats that only steadfast commitment can overcome. These long-distance relationship threats include: - Third parties. This threat arrives when both partners let their loneliness take over.  - Malicious intrigues. This threat works when transparency and trust are no longer there.  - Jealousy. This threat enters the picture when insecurities come to [...]]]></description>
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<p>Long-distance relationships have common threats that only steadfast commitment can overcome. These long-distance relationship threats include:</p>
<p><span id="more-370"></span>-<span> </span>Third parties. This threat arrives when both partners let their loneliness take over. </p>
<p>-<span> </span>Malicious intrigues. This threat works when transparency and trust are no longer there. </p>
<p>-<span> </span>Jealousy. This threat enters the picture when insecurities come to play.</p>
<p>Most of these long-distance relationship threats can potentially destroy any long-distance relationship when left unchecked. That is why the role of commitment must be fully understood, improved and realized.</p>
<p><strong>Role of Commitment in Long-Distance Relationships </strong></p>
<p>The role of commitment in long distance relationships is very critical. It serves as an invisible chain that bond couples engaged in long-distance relationships to be together. It somehow makes the everyone involved in long-distance relationships to keep communicating all the time. Commitment keeps the heart loving and the love going. Commitments must be fully understood before engaging in a long-distance relationship.</p>
<p><strong>Realizing Commitment </strong></p>
<p>Commitments in a long-distance relationship and love are synonymous. Bear in mind that commitment without love is as good as nothing. Likewise Love without commitment is worth nothing. Commitment and love are like heart and soul. Both are inseparable.</p>
<p>Apart from this, commitment means turning promises in to reality. Remember, commitment is about word of honor. Always mean what is being said and say what you meant.</p>
<p><strong>Improving Commitment </strong></p>
<p>Commitment must be improved every now and then. Here are some ways for enhanced commitments in long-distance relationships:</p>
<p>1.<span> </span> Work on both planning and setting goals together. This work out can help couples enhance their shared beliefs, expectations and ideas. It can also adds more familiarity and intimacy to their long distance relationship.</p>
<p>2.<span> </span>Maintain mutual respect for each other. Respect each other&#8217;s views, beliefs, ideas and opinion. Respect each other&#8217;s decisions. Avoid making decisions before asking consent or permission.</p>
<p>3.<span> </span>Look for a time to recall as frequent as possible the reasons that have made the relationship come to terms. Bread in mind. Consider only reasons that need more than emotion. Understand that commitment usually means more than feelings.</p>
<p>4.<span> </span>Be happy all the time. Avoid skeptics as much as possible. Run away from people who are always unhappy about long distance relationships.</p>
<p>5.<span> </span>Practice transparency. Be transparent as much as possible. Let go of the rumors that being too clear could be disastrous. Bear in mind that transparency builds trust. Transparency takes rooms of suspicion away. Commitment and transparency are likewise indivisible.</p>
<p>6.<span> </span>Acquire the art of surprise. Find time sending surprises such as cards, gifts, letters, and flowers. Use modern technology to keep constant communications. Do not just settle for one mode of communication for instance the telephone. Try the latest forms such as Instant messaging tools, Emails, VoIP phones, snail mails, and cellphones. Most mobile phones at present have exceptional features that allows you to connect anyone in any part of the world. Tri-band cellphone networks can be used globally. Commitment can be easily improve when communication lines are open at all times.</p>
<p><strong>7.</strong><span><strong> </strong></span><strong>Share memorable moments like:</strong></p>
<p>-<span> </span>Share latest video clips and audio recordings </p>
<p>-<span> </span>Swap latest photos or Personal calendars </p>
<p>-<span> </span>Watch similar TV shows or movies while talking online or on the phone. </p>
<p>-<span> </span>Answer Puzzles together while online </p>
<p>-<span> </span>Exchange digital photographs and videos of daily activities and send them through e-mail </p>
<p>-<span> </span>Share photos with each other also using cellphones with cameras </p>
<p>-<span> </span>Swap favorite songs and ring tones through mobile phone.</p>
<p>In order to have a long lasting relationship, always find ways to work on your commitment level. Be it you are in a short distance relationship or long distance relationship.</p>
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		<title>4 Reasons why its good to be in a long distance relationship</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Sep 2008 03:09:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sandra Christian</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is a saying &#8220;distant makes the heart grew fonder&#8221;. Lets say today you run into someone and you like him/her. But he/she is staying half way across the country. One part of you will say, &#8220;damn, that&#8217;s too far&#8221;, another part will be saying, &#8220;well, this could just work out&#8221;. How on earth can [...]]]></description>
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<p>There is a saying &#8220;distant makes the heart grew fonder&#8221;. Lets say today you run into someone and you like him/her. But he/she is staying half way across the country. One part of you will say, &#8220;damn, that&#8217;s too far&#8221;, another part will be saying, &#8220;well, this could just work out&#8221;.</p>
<p>How on earth can a long distant relationship be a good thing? Let me uncover the mystery for you and maybe, you can consider having a long distant relationship.</p>
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<p><strong>1.	Distance will make you appreciate one another more</strong></p>
<p>We tend to take things for granted especially when we are meeting our love ones everyday. When your partner is world apart from you, you will need to use your imagination more than ever. Think of the things you are gonna do when you meet up. Turn on the music and stare up into the sky, now, do you wish your partner is by your side?</p>
<p><strong>2. More time for yourself</strong></p>
<p>In a long distant relationship, you have more motivation, more time to exercise and keep yourself fit. Not only that, you can work more on your career and spend more time with your family. Think about all the things you can accomplish within a day.</p>
<p><strong>3. Planning the next meeting is always exciting</strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong> It gives you something to look forward to and a chance to escape from your daily life. If traveling starts to get expensive, work together to find a cheaper means of travel and split the cost from time to time. I like to think of it as an adventure and at the end of the adventure is your wonderful treasure.</p>
<p><strong>4. A long distant relationship can be alot stronger than a normal one</strong></p>
<p>Getting through a long distance relationship can be very rewarding for both of you. Think about all the courage it takes to trust somebody thousands of miles away and still be positive. Give yourselves a round of applause. You now share a strength that is impenetrable.</p>
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