On Gossip Girl, big family meals mean an extra serving of drama. Did you tune in for the much-anticipated Thanksgiving episode? It brought up a very good question: How do you choose between two guys?Spoiler alert! A lot of secrets surfaced last night, so let’s dive right in and discuss one of the main issues: Serena’s relationship with Trip, a married man. Things escalate between these two, especially during a steamy make-out session in an elevator. Trip’s wife finds out about her husband’s affair, and she tries to win him back. But Trip decides to end his marriage and make things official with Serena.

Just as Serena and Trip are about to leave, Nate stops S. and once again expresses his romantic feelings for her. He asks her to stay, but she chooses to go with Trip. I wonder if she’ll regret this decision. Have you ever turned down one guy, so that you can be with another one?

One of my close friends recently struggled with this, and it was an excruciating process. It’s just so hard to decide who’s a better fit when you can see yourself with both men.

Mistake #1: ASKING TOO MANY QUESTIONS

Lots of men worry that when they start talking to a girl, she won’t say much back. This outcome, standing there, suffering an awkward, embarrassing silence, is so much of a concern that they ask the girl question after question to avoid it.

The reason they bombard her with questions is because they think that the best way of getting and keeping the girl talking is by giving her more and more opportunities to say something, no matter what the topic happens to be.
Unfortunately, doing this sends out a very negative message. It actually shows that you’re nervous and would prefer her to do most of the talking, which often turns the woman off completely.

Mistake #2: NEVER SHUTTING UP

This is the opposite scenario to the one above, but happens for the same reason. Some men, scared that the girl they’re talking to will up and leave any second, choose to talk endlessly in an effort to keep their attention. Again, this is immediately obvious as a sign of social inexperience and nervousness.

Mistake #3: BORING HER TO DEATH

It’s not easy talking to a girl who’s beautiful, sexy and usually practically unattainable. So when a guy gets chatting to a girl he really likes, who’s hot and confident, he doesn’t want to mess it up.  After all, it might not happen again for ages!
So, in an attempt to limit the chance of saying something that might ruin the interaction and thus his chances with her, he subconsciously restricts the topics of conversation he brings up.

He talks about work, the weather, sports, current affairs, perhaps bombards her with a few questions on those subjects…and generally doesn’t push the boat out much.

Okay, so they’re 3 of the worst mistakes a guy can make when talking to a girl he likes. So let’s flip the coin and look at what he SHOULD be doing.

In our world today, there a lot of couples that are of different races. Among them, it is not hard to find a Caucasian man paired up with an Asian woman. As we can see from movies, Caucasians like to work with Asian women. We can see renowned Asian actress Michelle Yeoh in some Hollywood films. Hollywood has introduced Asian ladies to Caucasians and therefore attracted attention towards Asian women.

Every race in the world is unique and can be characterised by special physical and cultural differences. There are a lot of likable qualities that are attractive to the Caucasians. One of them is simply looks. Asian women do look young even in their thirties. Take for example famous Taiwanese supermodel Lin Chiling. The gorgeous thirty-plus looks just like any twenty-year-old and puts most women to shame. We also have the popular Japanese model Hoshino Aki who, also in her thirties, has been called “eien no shoujo”, meaning “The Eternal Girl”. This is good evidence that Asian women can look ten years younger then their actual age. Another physical attraction is their slimness.Asian women are generally very thin, and are obsessed over being slim. Caucasians love slim women and it is no wonder Asians are among their favourites.

Most Caucasian also find Asian women attractive as wives. They are very loyal towards their family and most are willing to be simply housewives. They cook meals for their family and do not grumble over the house chores. They also value the importance of hygiene and cleanliness. These values make for a very dutiful and responsible wife.

Asian women are also very hardworking. A lot of them make it to renowned Universities in the Caucasian countries. So it is not too rare to spot Asian girls in internationally famous universities. They are also very gentle and submissive.The race most recognised for those qualities is Japanese.

If you are actively seeking Asian girls to make friends,you may find them at Asian restaurants. It is common to have clubs that are formed by Asians to support Asians to ease their lonely hearts living in a foreign land. A connection to these clubs will help greatly to make Asian friends. Perhaps the easiest and most convenient way is to go online. Look for dating websites catered mainly to Asians and your quest for a Asian wife can start from there.

A lot of people would tell you that its pretty hard to figure a woman out. But the thing is that not many people are willing to study women properly. There are some things that many women out there does and if you understand these things you would easily make any girl like you instantly. Read on and discover what these things actually are and enjoy mind blowing results!

Women want you to prove your worth to them – This is one of the reasons why women tend to play too hard to get early on. If you find them do that around you then it’s obvious that they are testing you and they want to see how you react to their actions. Most guys will fail because they don’t know that they are actually been tested. If a girl suddenly play too hard to get, it will be a great chance for you to get her now. 

Women are great at reading body language - They can actually ‘smell’ what is going on in your mind just by looking at your body language. They say that the way you act around a woman is more important that what you are saying to her and I believe this saying to be true. Thus, it’s suggested that you portray a highly positive language instead of appearing to be nervous. 

Women are looking for a challenge – This is what most woman are looking for in a guy. Believe it or not, they actually want someone that can act like a challenge and make them work for it. The problem is that most guys are acting way to nice in front of the girls and that means they don’t get too much of the attention. 

So now that you have the 3 vital information about women, don’t you think its easier to plan how you can date one?

Dating for guys should be a relax and informal situation. However, most guys tend to tense up making it very difficult for themselves when it comes to dating. Here are top 10 tips that every man should know to make it alot more easier for you.So here comes tip #1.

Try to look at your best

If it’s the first date, it’s especially important to dress at your best. They say that the first impression will last forever, so why not also be the best impression? Know what kind of clothes look good on you and try to achieve a cool, confidence appearance with that. The most important thing about dressing is that the shirt must be ironed and not wrinkled. Its stain free and look perfectly good on you.

Once you know the importance of dressing. The next is the scent. According to dating expert, a guy’s smell will either increase the attractiveness of the guy or turn the girl off. Remember to spay the right amount of perfume at the right place like neck, wrist and chest.

Finally, be clean shave, brush your teeth, style your hair or get a good haircut, check your face on the mirror and lastly cut your nails and now, you are ready to go.

Be on time

Patience is a virtue but being late is not an excuse. In fact its a sign for not caring. If the girl is late, try telling her to make it up by buying you a drink, but do it in a teaseful manner.

Find the best place

You and your date should agree on where to go beforehand. As an alpha male, you should have a plan and suggest where to meet. If both of you have different ideas on where to go, try to compromise. Let the ladies decide first and you will decide on the next date. Just remember to find a place where the two of will be comfortable while having fun at the same time.

Mind your manners

All that you know about manners and etiquette will be helpful during dating. Show that you are helpful and be a gentleman by opening the door, pulling out the chair for her. Believe me, all of things will be important with her.

Make sure you can spit good game

No one likes a boring date, so make an effort to make it interesting. Communicate with her, and get to know here. You do not have to impress her. Ask her  questions and let her ask you too. Say the right thing at the right time and avoid embarrassing questions like your ex, her ex and politics.

Be spontaneous

The best dating tip i can offer to guys is being spontaneous. Do not have to be conscious of what will happen next or will the she be happy with the date. Relax, be laid back, have fun during the date and everything else will fall in to places.

The payment method

Most of the time, its the men who pay the bill. But there are instances where women likes to shoulder the bill. On the first date, there is no need to bring her to fine restaurant. Go for something you can afford and when the bill comes, just say, “Don’t worry I got it’s no big deal”. The only reason you take your date to the fine restraunt is when she is your girlfriend. Even then, you only take her once a while.

Make the Best of your date

Every date should be memorable and special. How to do it will depend on you and the girl itself. Make her feel special during the date and it will guarantee a follow up date.

The kissing game

The most asked question, shall I kiss my date? Well, that decision lies in you my friend. However , there are some signs which the women gives out that may be a sign. For example, she’s looking at you with an intense gaze, she licks her lips while looking at you, she laughs as everything you say, or she does the hair toss. All these are signals that means kissing is around the corner.

The phone call

There are some rules that says that you should call her 2 days after the date. There is nothing wrong in calling her the following day but don’t make a big deal out of it. Simply give her a call and start a conversation where you left behind the day before so it’s still fresh in her mind.