Going for a date is a happy thing but it also inspires fear in many people, and that fear is a mixture of anxiety, romantic ideas and the fear of rejection. In order to minimize fears, there are a few things you should take note of when you go on a date.

Dress well but behave as you usually do. This is to attract your date just being the genuine you. Do not try to be someone else you are not, because persona breaks easily, and your date may like that persona instead of the real you. You can fake it in one hour, but you cannot fake it 24-hours per day. So just be yourself and have fun.

If you are not very close with your date, meet at a public place for around a time of 2 hours or a little more. It will be good to just go out for a meal, watch a movie, and stuff like that. After knowing each other better, and seeing signs of interest, you may proceed with more romantic ideas.

Do not go to each other’s places too soon in the relationship, especially when you started out as friends. This is to protect yourself and your date. There are too many weird people out there. Your date may also feel awkward just thinking about going to your place. Usually going to each other’s houses in a relationship has a special meaning: commitment to the relationship. If you do not have that, let that wait. The results will be sweet when that day comes.

Do not have long terms plans in mind when you are dating. You are not looking for a “marriage partner”. The purpose of a date is to test whether you like each other. It can end 3 ways. First, it could start a new relationship. Second, you could gain a new friendship. Third you just gained a new acquaintance, who you will not see very often but good to know nonetheless.

Do not be too shy about your feelings but of course do not blurt everything out on the first date. Instead of saying “I like you”, say something more subtle like “I hope to see you again” or “will you be available next week?”

After you have successfully planned the first date, you should move on to the next step, which is to prepare for the next date. Let’s assume that you hit it off really well in your first date and both of you would like to see each other again. But how soon should you let her know that you enjoy her company? How long should you wait before you call her up and set a second date?

This is a very common dating dilemma and although there is no one single rule, you can follow some of the advice below.

Don’t call your date on the same night. This is a big no-no, it will actually lessen your date’s anticipation and excitement and as a result, lower her attraction level for you. When you make the call right away, women have the impression that you like her very much, therefore, won’t need to exert effort and energy in wondering whether you like her anot. Instead, she can focus her energy in wondering why she doesn’t need to go out with you again, which is something you need to avoid.

You should not call on the same evening as your date to create anticipation. However, if you can’t control and you really want to call her the same night to find out how she feels about you, then at least use your creativity to come up with a reason for the call. Were there any questions you want to ask your date but forgot to ask? Then call your date to answer that question. Or you can call her and comment on the dinner you had or thank her for the amazing time you had with her.

If your date end after 10pm, you should wait until the next day before calling. If you have a great time but your date have not responded to your calls, you should stop calling her again. You will only be wasting your effort and time which you could be use to plan other first dates, so don’t despair.

The best time to call a woman to set up a second date is when you have plans for the date. When you wait to call a woman, it will make her wonder why you haven’t call her back, whether you like her a not, or if she had said something or do something wrong. This is good since this means she spends a lot of time wondering about you so much that she doesn’t even have the time to think about whether she likes you or not.

By the time you call, she will be so happy to hear from you that she will do anything to attract you and capture your interest. Do take note that the first date spark will burn out and die if you take too long to call.

The best thing you can do is to prevent this dilemma. As soon as you sent your date off from the first date, and assuming both of you enjoy your date, then set up a plan right then and there to avoid wondering when you will call. Once you get to this stage, everything is set for you and all you need to do is call to confirm the next date.

500 Love Making Tips – How to Bring Back the Fire in Your Love Life

First impression really do count and we all know that the first date is the biggest huddle to overcome. It really is a one-shot, do or die scenario and if you mess it up, you will never get a date number 2. If you pass with flying colors, maybe you will wake up with her the next morning. In this article, i am going to tell you 5 stupid mistakes men do to ruin their first date and how you should avoid it. 

1) Don’t talk about yourself – Sure, women will say that she want to get to know more about you, but you have to make an effort to ask about her too. People really love talking about themselves. While talking about her job may be boring, asking her about her ambition or hobbies certainly isn’t to her. Also, try to relate to these things rather than just say, ‘Ah, ok!’ Then ask another question. If she start asking about you, then do answer because that means you are building her interest in you. 

2) Don’t burp or pass wind – Should you really need to do that, please excuse yourself and go to the bathroom. It is never funny let alone attractive. 

3) Not showing her that you find her sexual – If you go out and and you are afraid to touch her or letting her know you find her sexy  and still want a kiss at the end of the day will be very strange and it won’t make sense to her. Instead, when she tells you about her ambition and hobbies, tell her you find her sexy or attractive. 

4) Don’t be needy – Don’t call her too soon, don’t tell her you love her, don’t show up at her house and don’t propose to her, that is not attractive. 

5) Don’t tell her that she is the most attractive/amazing/ extraordinary girl you have ever been to a date with! She won’t believe you and you are sending a message telling her that she is too good for you. Yes, she may well be the most beautiful and if she is, she have heard if before and if she isn’t, she will think you want her purely for sex. Here is the rule of thumb though – if she is indeed beautiful, compliment her on her personality and if she is not, tell her you find her physically attractive. 

Getting the girl you want is vital to a man’s happiness. If you follow these basic rules, you won’t ever ruin your first date.