Ok, it’s really not a “staring contest” when it comes to building sexual attraction. But the idea is whenever your eyes meet, absolutely do not break eye contact until she initiates the break! Three things here: one, subconsciously, she’ll get the impression that you’re a man who likes to be in control and so this will make her think that you’re “The Man”; two, maintaining sexual contact means you are REALLY into her; and three, long, hard, and deep eye contact conveys a certain “dark side” about you.Now that you know how to increase sexual attraction with eye contact, wouldn’t you like to take that to the next level? Open your eyes till they’re only 75% open. You want to look like you’re looking lovingly at her, not mentally willing her to undress in front of you! On the other hand, having your eyes open too slightly will make her think you’re probably sleepy and just about to doze off. 75% is the look you want to achieve.Eye contact at this rate will be the “come hither” look you see most often in the movies.

During eye contact, lower your head slightly. This “look” or “pose” conveys that you’re sexually interested in her. Tilting your head upwards is a sign that you’re looking down or belittling her and she won’t like that. Tilting your head to low gives the impression that you’re not self-confident and she won’t like that either. So lower your head just a little for maximum sexual attraction effect. When making eye contact, don’t blink a lot. But if you must, try to blink slowly. Blinking too much means you’re nervous, or worse, she may think you have an eye muscle disorder, and that’s not really sexy is it? Also, because you’re conveying nervousness from excessive blinking, that nervous feeling is going to be passed onto her and she’ll start to feel nervous too.

Both men and women flirt, but both parties have not yet learned the meaning behind the signs. Well, not a lot of people know anyway. Lots of men use flirting techniques on women, hoping to get a good response, but unfortunately most do not know that hints are given at all. This is because too few people know how to read signs. It does not take a book-reader to know the signs; a lot of information can be found online.

If you are really unsure if a man is flirting with you, perhaps not too many observations were done. In fact, a lot of signals can be given out in a quick meal. Observe the eye contact and the other body postures. Is the eye contact very long, was the eyebrows raised, would you say his posture is “open”?

There are some signs that can be caught in very common situations. Besides the above movements, he would also touch his hair or his glasses. This is to show he wants your eyes on him. He may also plays with his accessories, such as his necklace, again trying to attract more attention. He leans forward to indicate he wants to listen, and he laughs, showing that he is comfortable and happy around you. It is subtle, but there are meanings behind them.

These are the common signs that any man, no matter how brave or shy the man may be. Bolder, more confident “alpha” men may use more obvious signs, but they also give you more pressure because the signs are so strong you need to give a response. He may also send a text message saying that he misses you. This is a very clear flirting sign, so it’s up to you to return the message, or forget it and pretend you never received if you are not interested.

When a woman is attracted to you, she says it beyond words. Look for both words and body language. All her body parts say something, and if we do not know what they mean, we are missing out. Look at what her eyes say, what her arms say, what her legs say and so on.

What is she doing with her arms and hands? She may be playing with her pen, meaning that she is nervous. When a woman is nervous in front of a man, that is a good sign because that means she has some feelings for him. Is she folding her arms? This is a bad sign. It shows disinterest and she is closing herself on you. It also means that she does not mind being rude to you (that is a put off!). If you see this, better end whatever you are doing abruptly and excuse yourself. There is no use wasting time on that woman.

If she is interested, her legs should face you. If her legs are faced outwards, away from you, that might mean she is not interested, and may feel like she does not want to engage in the conversation any longer. Think of a nice way to end the conversation early and excuse both parties.

What does hair-flipping mean? That she is hair- conscious? When a woman does so, this means she wants attention. That is also a sign of interest you can look out for.

Now that you have learnt how to read the signs, you know better now when she should continue to spend time with her, or just plain give up and look for anything. Clinging on to a rotting relationship is the obstacle to finding a new one.

Body language is without words yet powerful. Most of us dismiss it because we were not taught to read them. And learning how to read the signs will set apart a thick-skinned person from one that knows how to retreat at the sight of the right signs, in the settings of a date. The power is that there so much unsaid messages hidden in them, and knowing what these messages mean can serve us a great deal, whether it’s a conversation with a friend, a boss, an executive, or a love interest.

In presentation, one can watch the body languages whether the speaker is one with substance or just some terrified person forced to speak. The signs of fidgety hand movements, bad legs position will tell us how comfortable the speaker is about speaking. A nervous one will probably forget the points, due to the inability to focus.

When talking to anyone, one can tell from body movements if your audience is interested in what you have to say. Slouching backwards and a bored face are obvious signs, and there’s more such as playing with the pen, tapping of the feet on the ground. All these mean “Get it over already! I’m bored! ” . The eyes, windows of the soul, can also tell you if you are getting attention.

In a negotiation with a business partner, or a banker, it is wise for watch for signs and then change your approach on the spot. If you are seeing signs that they are bored, hold back no more to ensure a swift and mutually beneficial agreement. On the other hand, if they look very interested, or anxious, you can keep playing the games into your hands.

Well, in a conversation where at least one party would be angry, observing body languages can help you determine your “fight or flight” decision. Angry eyes and clenched fists indicate that you either step back or if you really have to, resolve the manner by all means.

This skill of observing body language is very useful in life. It can help you make decisions and avoid making someone upset.

Body language makes someone say things without talking. It is a hidden language that none of us can hide from. What others read from our body language may very well form a good or bad first impression on them. When it comes to dating, observing the right body language will make you attractive to women. As many experts said, how you say is it more important than the words you say.

Always have a warm and genuine smile. Firstly, this show you are confident and at peace with yourself, which is a very basic aspect of a successful man. Secondly, this makes you look and feel friendly, and makes women comfortable with you being around. A genuine smile has such values and no disadvantages at all. So go with a smile!

Keep a healthy level of eye contact. Keith Ferrazzi, author of “Never Eat Alone and other secrets to success, one relationship at a time” said a healthy level of eye contact lies between 70% and 100%. Less than 70% shows that you are disinterested(rude) whereas 100%, staring non-stop will intimidate the person. Any where between 70$ and 100% is healthy. And do not stare or look at her chest. It is a bad mistakes made by many men, and will just irritate them. If you are not comfortable maintaining eye contact, just force yourself to do and with time it will be second nature.

Have a upright posture. Its good for your bones and it helps you look good too. Having a good posture conveys confidence and strength, and that will surely help you form good impressions. The best business people and artistes observe them. Look at Donald Trump, the real estate super star. He always carry a strong aura about him, and posture is a key factor to that (He attracts women well, by the way).

Finally,the most important thing and the hardest to accomplish is to have a confident personality. It may takes long periods of time learning, imitating and cultivating to accomplish such a feat but in the end it is all worth it as it will enhance your life. Look at rock stars. What differentiate them from the rest of the males? Its the “Rock Star” personality. They are alpha-confident and is never, ever boring.Cultivating a Rock Star personality will rock your life!

Another important ingredient to a successful date is attention. It is a matter of being sincere. When you are talking to her, or anyone at all, give them 100% of their attention. Nobody wants to talk to someone will always seems miles away. Be a good listener, be attentive and ask questions. This will show that you are interested and sincere.

Body language is a powerful communication tool. Someone who knows how to read them sees intentions more clearly than words can do. Women are better used to this language than men and they do it quite skilfully.

The more eye contact the woman makes with the target, the more she shows interest. When the woman looks at the man directly, and the man catches her doing it, she will lower her eyes and smile indicating interest, happiness and embarrassment that he caught her stare. This is a sure sign of attraction.

Conversely, if a man looks at the woman, and she looks away or any some other things like ceiling and walls, that is a definite sign of disinterest. It’s good to know that eye movements show a lot.

The hands can send various clear messages. Hands open convey that the woman is open to him. Starting any conversation will be good. She may also touch him “accidentally” to convey interest. Psychology can help us get deeper into that. On the other hand, hands which are closed or not shown, shows signs of lack of interest.

As we know, posture conveys a lot about a person. An open posture shows that the person is comfortable in his/her own skin and is an open person. Turning towards the man she is talking with and leaning forward shows interest. She may also cross then uncross her legs, tilt her head slightly. These, too, are signs of interest. If she crosses her arms, hold her drink high in front of her or turns her body away, it’s time to move on because it shows either insecurity of her or merely signs of certain disinterest.

A good way to build rapport is to mirror the other person’s body movements. By doing so, we are trying to sync with the other person, and make us feel like we are similar. This is a good way to build attraction, because the person will feel close to you. As mentioned above, good eye contact is necessary. But avoid fidgety movements because it shows insecurity.

Watch Brad Pitt, George Clooney or any other guy with high status and you will find that they simply move differently from the rest of us. They seem to have some sort of aura around them that made women swoon to them.

You too can develop this aura and have women attracted to you and increase your dating success. 

Have you ever notice how your body look when you are depress or feel like crap? You will look down on the ground and fold your arms and other non-alpha male behaviors start to show. But when you have girls all over you, do you notice you have a different kind of body language? 

Read on for some of the body language of the alpha male. 

1) Relax - For you to be in the alpha male state, relax is the most important mental state. 

• Don’t let yourself feel worried. Let all your worries go since you can’t solve them by worrying. 
•  Breathe through your abdomen rather than your chest. (When you breathe, imagine that you’re bringing air down to your stomach. Feel your belly rise and fall as you breathe.)
• Avoid non-verbal behavior that shows you are worried. For example, raising your shoulder, fidgeting etc. 
• Relax all your muscles and slow down your movement by a notch. Except on rare occassions where there is a pressing emergency, you will see that alpha males move unhurriedly, as if there is nothing bothering them and they are in control of the time. 
• Relax your eyes and eyelids. Beta males lift their eye lids open because they are nevous, their eyes will dart the surrounding. Instead of doing that, alpha male should look straight ahead. Only give your attention to things that interest you. While you are out and about, use affirmations such as “I am sexual, I am relax and I am in control”. 
• If someone try to get your attention, move your head slowly. 

2) Feel masculine and powerful - . Start visualizing you are a masculine man. Start doing things in your life that makes you feel masculine. Like lifting weights, working out with a punching bag. 

3) Realize that you are a man of high value - Start focusing on your qualities instead of your deficiencies. You can be as arrogant as you want if that means you can develop massive self-confidence. Start holding thoughts like “I am the greatest, and people count themselve lucky to have me around them”. Treat people as if they are in awe of you rben before they met you. 

4) Feel comfortable about yourself - An alpha male is happy with or without any particular woman, since he views women as sources of fun in his life—no more and no less. Take the mindset that of course women want you, but it’s no big deal either way.

5) Spread out your body - Start taking up space with your arms, legs and chest. Look proud and keep your head up. 

By becoming an alpha male, you will increase your chance of attracting women and your change of a successful date.