Comments on: Secrets to a Successful & Loving Relationship That Last http://www.mindchic.net/secrets-to-a-successful-loving-relationship-that-last/ Love lasts when the relationship comes first Wed, 25 Jan 2012 11:37:35 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Marc http://www.mindchic.net/secrets-to-a-successful-loving-relationship-that-last/comment-page-1/#comment-107 Marc Fri, 31 Oct 2008 19:39:23 +0000 http://mindchic.net/?p=477#comment-107 Excellent tips, thanks. I would add one more, if I may: remember that the two of you are in fact one. One couple, a team working and living together for mutual happiness. Your strength comes from your common bond. When disagreements happen (as they sometimes do), realize that what is actually happening is that you have discovered a potential problem that needs solving. solve it together and you will be yet another stepp ahead of the crowd. It's not a case of him vs. her, but one of here's the situation, and here is a potential barrier to its resolution. By coming together to solve the problem you actually transform something that wuold cause strife into an opportunity to grow ever closer together. This is one of the key strategies that my wife and I used to beat the curve and pull ourselves back from the brink of divorce, continuing on to grow ever stronger together and celebrating our 22nd anniversary last summer. cheers, Marc Excellent tips, thanks. I would add one more, if I may: remember that the two of you are in fact one. One couple, a team working and living together for mutual happiness. Your strength comes from your common bond. When disagreements happen (as they sometimes do), realize that what is actually happening is that you have discovered a potential problem that needs solving. solve it together and you will be yet another stepp ahead of the crowd.

It’s not a case of him vs. her, but one of here’s the situation, and here is a potential barrier to its resolution. By coming together to solve the problem you actually transform something that wuold cause strife into an opportunity to grow ever closer together.

This is one of the key strategies that my wife and I used to beat the curve and pull ourselves back from the brink of divorce, continuing on to grow ever stronger together and celebrating our 22nd anniversary last summer.

cheers, Marc

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