The use of specific sexual languages can attract women. Contrary to popular consensus, there are some “One fits all” qualities that can attract most, if not any girl. Confident girls choose to hang out with a man or not based on first impressions. The impressions that you need to have, fortunately, comes from learned skill. It comes from training your body language.

The first point is speech. The tone of your voice is far more important that the words coming out of your mouth. Pick-up lines may help but they are secondary to your voice. Women like a deep, tough sexy voice. Amazingly, guys can change their voice. This takes practice upon practice and cannot be acquired overnight but there is nothing to lose from acquiring a better voice. Your new voice may even attract women to you like moths to fire! Practice speaking from a point below your throat, the diaphragm. You notice that the voice is lower than your normal voice. Speak with this controlled voice until it becomes second nature or until you have acquired the new voice.

The second point is strong eye contact. When a women looks at you, hold the eye contact longer than she does. This shows that you are in control. If you look away first, it is an indicator of cowardice. Most men do not have this habit and may fear doing so. If so, just treat it like the “staring game” we used to play in our childhood to take away the fear. This is especially important in the first eye contact you make with her, the first impression to be formed in her mind. Practicing this had two advantages: firstly you can get the most confident of girls. Secondly, it is a great way to train your self-confidence.

Thirdly, learn to disseminate very confident signals in your body language. Feel like you are the best guy in the world and let that confidence channel itself in your body. Stand tall, sit upright, look and feel cool. Let your body movements be confidently slower. This takes a lot of practice. Research show that when a man is nervous, he talks faster and at a higher pitch. And your movements will be fast and nervous. This will ruin your first impressions.

If you need someone to model after, look at James Bond movies. They are where most guys model themselves after. Alternatively, observe rock stars. They have a top-of-the world confidence and a deep, powerful voice. Confident people hardly slouch and you should not too. Don’t remember the tips; act on them. Practice and practice until you realise that there are women all around you, wanting your attention.