You see him across the room and you just have to do it, this is the guy of your dreams and you want to ask him to dance or share a drink. The only problem is that you have no clue how to do this. Here are some tips to help you break the ice.

Be Casual and Calm

One of the best ways to approach a guy is to be casual and in control about doing it. You don’t want to appear to be anxious or “desperate” just go with the flow and let things play out naturally.

Be Approachable Yourself

When you approach a guy and are hoping for connections make sure you do anything you can to encourage that connection. Turn off the cell phone, walk away from your girlfriends and make sure that you look your best by touching up hair, face and clothes. You only get one chance to make a first impression, make it a good one and he is more likely to be interested in your approach

Be Real about Who You Approach

While it is true that love can happen at any time and between anybody, be real about your interests. If you are a secretary who drives a 15 year old car and lives in a small apartment, no matter how good your approach is the Fortune Five Hundred CEO is not going to be open to the idea most times. That is not to say it doesn’t happen and you shouldn’t try but be ready for the outcome.

Be Genuine; don’t try Pickup Lines or Gimmicks

These work on guys about as well as the one’s guys try on you work. These are just a waste of time, the best choice is to be yourself and be direct, and anything else will eventually fall apart and end up damaging what chances you had to connect.

Be Direct about your Intentions

Don’t be shy but also don’t be “in your face” just relax and introduce yourself, and state your interest. A simple, “Hi, I saw you from over there and was wondering if you would like to have a drink together, my name is Kelly” is often all that is needed to get the ball rolling.

Don’t be Too Aggressive

Guys are put off by women who are hyper assertive in their approach, be nice and casual but also keep the feeling light and cordial. If you appear to be too much in charge of the initial encounter he may think of you as a control queen and walk away.

Be Honest

If you are not a Super model who is in town to host the co-sponsored Lamborghini and Hooters trade show then don’t say you are. Eventually you will have to tell the truth, what have you gained if you really start to hit it off with this guy and you find out that it was all based on lies and you blew a chance at something good. Remember honesty is always the best policy.

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