Every relationship has a romantic start, and a very nice process of seeing each other and falling in love. When things are going well, it will reach a point where it will either rise sharply or fall dramatically. This is the point where people decide whether this person they are dating becomes their husband or wife. This “evaluation point” is the hardest part of any relationship.

It is at this point where both will decide whether or not to further commit to each other at a higher level, or eventually break off. Will tears of joy be shed, or tears of sorrow? To most people, marriage is a very, very big decision to make. And this the after-effects of this dilemma spells the either the birth of a newly-weds or the end of a sweet love.

Men are known to avoid commitment like a disease. In order to get him to commit, the past surrounding his fear must be understood, and eventually removed. A child that grows up in a less-than-perfect family is bound to be afraid of threading the same path of his parents. He who has witnessed unhappy marriage in is own family will certainly doubt the need of commitment.

The man’s perception of commitment may hold him back from executing the dreaded word. Commitment to the man may mean loss of freedom, and loss of personal time, both of which he may be enjoying very much. These may be strong enough reasons he is using to stop himself from committing.

A man who is well to do may have financial reasons for not committing. It is a fact that women ask for huge sums of money, or even part of business in a divorce agreement. This problem can be easily solved by having a prenuptial agreement. As for other reasons listed above, a great deal of talking and understanding may be necessary to guide his perceptions of commitment.