Some people have a very simple and beautiful love life; they meet one or two loves and then get married and live happily ever after. Some of us walk an unsteady path, passing by and living love after love, misery after misery and the end still cannot be seen. It’s known that all women long for marriage but not all are that lucky.

Women ‘s instincts are way sharper than men’s, and they know very quickly if they like a man and if they wanted to spend the remainder of their lives with them. However men seem to be slow at popping the question. Is there a way to get them to commit faster, preferably within a year? Yes, and it all comes down to planning.

First, you should search inside your heart and come up with a few answers. Come up with a list of qualities that you want your man to have. Be mature and realistic and match yourself with your criteria. “Rich” are, for the most part, just a dream. Once you have drawn up the list, you may find that you may need to change yourself a little to match your list. So start taking changes slowly, one at a time. Set a deadline to fulfill the tasks. Start to examine your surroundings. Has “he” already appeared?

Then think of how you are going to attract your man. Seriously, the notion that the man must take initiative to chase the girl is very outdated. If you really like the man, it’s alright to take first initiative. Men usually start to take initiative after you have indicated interest. They feel flattered and most start to chase you. Unless, you are targeting a “bad-ass” type of guy, the guy will usually take over initiative from you.

Okay, you found the right guy and he is willing to give it a try. But, are you ready yet? The shadows from past relationships may still hurt you subconsciously even though you may have forgotten them. Are you still heart-broken? Then, you must remind yourself that you are starting a new life. Life is great because you can “start it all over” whenever you want to. So, motivate yourself and enjoy your new relationship!