First impression really do count and we all know that the first date is the biggest huddle to overcome. It really is a one-shot, do or die scenario and if you mess it up, you will never get a date number 2. If you pass with flying colors, maybe you will wake up with her the next morning. In this article, i am going to tell you 5 stupid mistakes men do to ruin their first date and how you should avoid it. 

1) Don’t talk about yourself – Sure, women will say that she want to get to know more about you, but you have to make an effort to ask about her too. People really love talking about themselves. While talking about her job may be boring, asking her about her ambition or hobbies certainly isn’t to her. Also, try to relate to these things rather than just say, ‘Ah, ok!’ Then ask another question. If she start asking about you, then do answer because that means you are building her interest in you. 

2) Don’t burp or pass wind – Should you really need to do that, please excuse yourself and go to the bathroom. It is never funny let alone attractive. 

3) Not showing her that you find her sexual – If you go out and and you are afraid to touch her or letting her know you find her sexy  and still want a kiss at the end of the day will be very strange and it won’t make sense to her. Instead, when she tells you about her ambition and hobbies, tell her you find her sexy or attractive. 

4) Don’t be needy – Don’t call her too soon, don’t tell her you love her, don’t show up at her house and don’t propose to her, that is not attractive. 

5) Don’t tell her that she is the most attractive/amazing/ extraordinary girl you have ever been to a date with! She won’t believe you and you are sending a message telling her that she is too good for you. Yes, she may well be the most beautiful and if she is, she have heard if before and if she isn’t, she will think you want her purely for sex. Here is the rule of thumb though – if she is indeed beautiful, compliment her on her personality and if she is not, tell her you find her physically attractive. 

Getting the girl you want is vital to a man’s happiness. If you follow these basic rules, you won’t ever ruin your first date.