Give Before You Receive
Before receiving any sexual pleasure from her, you have to make sure she receives sexual pleasure from you first. This is so because you have control of your sexual desires and she’ll be in a more “ready” state to have an orgasm while having intercourse, and after she has an orgasm, she’ll be ready and willing to reciprocate to the best of her abilities.

Effects of Stress on Your Partner
If the stress and pressure get too high, she may be left unsatisfied. And because you have set this “goal” to have an orgasm in a first place, and now that the goal is un-met, both you and your partner will be left feeling disappointed. If this approach is sustained, you may wind up anchoring these feelings of disappointment to your times of physical intimacy – carrying it over into your next sexual encounter, further increasing her “performance anxiety.”

Communication
Not every technique will work on every woman. One woman may prefer one particular stroke or rhythm more than the next woman does. To find out what really makes your woman tick, you’ve got to open the lines of communication. You need to find out what she likes as you’re applying a technique.  That way, you can optimize your rhythm, speed, stroke etc. to match what she likes best. Communicating well with your partner can make it much easier to bring her pleasure, and ultimately, more and better orgasms.

Escalation
One of the biggest mistake men make is moving too fast, too soon.  It works fine for us, but for a woman, she might not be ready yet. For guys, we can come to an orgasm very quickly.  Men basically need to get aroused, stimulated, and we’re done. Women, on the other hand, need a gradual escalation to come to a point of orgasm.

Anticipation and Tension
In order to multiply the effects of your sexual techniques, you’ll have to add anticipation into the mix. Anticipation will get her more aroused, give her a greater chance to have an orgasm and focuses her mind on the physical pleasure she’s experiencing. And…while you’re building up anticipation, at the same time you’re cranking up sexual tension as well. The sexual tension will have to be released (in the form of an orgasm).