Here you are standing in a crowded room staring at a hottie near the bar. Is she making eyes at you? Or is that just a weird tic? How exactly can you tell if you are been flirted with or you are just staring at some hapless soul with an em brassing weird condition? 

Flirting is a time honored tradition; it has been going on since Cleopatra waggled her asp at Marc Antony. Although everyone may have their own flirting style, there is three flirting signals that seem to be universal. 

These are eye contact, accidental touch and vocal cues. Think about your last flirting encounter. Did it start with a friendly wink? Maybe a little bit of subtle eye batting? The eyes are of course the window to the soul so they are the first cue given to indicate interest. 

Accidental touch may not be accidental at all. each of those arm brushes or hip bumps are slightly more aggressive cues to the bumpers intent. Pay attention to the next casual conversation. 

Does the woman you are speaking to keep reaching out to pat or even squeeze your arms when she laughs? Has she walked past and trail her fingertips over your shoulder? That might be your cue to ask her out. She is clearing establishing her desire for physical contact and bridging the gap between you. (Please don’t be silly and think that you can just reach out and kiss her.) 

Vocal cues may be the harder flirting signal to decipher, especially when men have less sensitive hearing than women do. A woman who are arouse will have a huskier, lower tones to her voice and they usually speak slower. 

A recent study showed that women started using words like “juicy”, “wet” and other such adjectives more frequently when they are turn on. So listen carefully at not just what she say but how she say it as well. 

To conclude, my advice is be on your toes and keep a look out for opportunities. If you are serious about getting the girl of your dream, then you need to seriously work on solid techniques to achieve your goal. If you understand what a woman is thinking, it’s far easier to approach her.