When learning how to give head to a guy, these are just some of the dilemmas that women face. Do I have to swallow once he ejaculates?  What if he wants me to take it all in but I can’t? Let’s start with the top 3 mistakes that you should not make when giving head to a guy.

Mistake #1:  Getting Carried Away With All That Sucking

There’s definitely a wrong way to give a guy head – and sucking too hard is one of them. This is especially true if you are dealing with the most sensitive part of his penis which is the head. The best way to do it is by taking more and more of his penis – slowly – into your mouth, and then applying a moderate suction. You want him to moan in pleasure – not in pain – so don’t get carried away with all that sucking!

Mistake #2: Treating His Equipment Like Breakable China

This is probably one of the most common mistakes that women make when learning how to give head to a guy. This could be due to the fact that when men are performing cunnilingus, women prefer them to be a bit gentle especially when targeting the clitoris. However, when it comes to a man’s penis, it is neither fragile nor breakable so treat it gently initially, but when things heat up later on, you need to amp up the pressure.

Mistake #3: Going Too Fast When Going Down On Him

How many times have you heard the maxim that men are such visual creatures? This is perfectly true, so why would you want to make it look like you’re in a hurry when you’re going down on him? Take your time, look him in the eye while you’re doing it and treat him to a visual, sensual feast while you’re loving his penis. It’s okay to indulge in a quickie every once in a while during penetrative sex, but giving him head is not one of those instances.